(He wants me to have a job by Monday....and is agigtated by my less than satisfactory grades in the college courses I am enrolled in)
He doesn't seem to understand that it is very difficult being pregnant!
........Not only are my physical capabilities limited during this time, but I have found that my mental capabitlities aren't necessarily up to par either.
How can I make him understand and empathize with me during this time??
2007-01-20 13:55:39 · 9 answers · asked by sex bot 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Kick him REALLY hard between the legs, and ask him if he can work like that!!!!!Good Luck!!!! Congrats on the new baby!!!!
2007-01-20 14:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by pupcake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever seen those things they make girls wear around sometimes that mimic a pregnant belly? Get him one of those and ask him to wear it around the house for the weekend. If he refuses, remind him that you have to carry this 24/7 and you just want to be able to share the experience with him. Then, ask him to do things like shovel the sidewalk, fix the plumbing, or anything else you can think of that will make him really feel his "pregnant" belly. He'll get the point.
2007-01-20 14:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, he may not have the ability to empathize with you. But you could tell him that being mean to mommy is upsetting the baby and then s**t on the couch. He'll be speechless then.
2007-01-20 14:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by oh really 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Strap a twenty pound bag of flour to his gut, then throw a deck of cards on the floor and make him pick them up, afterward make him run up and down stairs, then tell him to cook dinner. Don't forget to take pictures.
2007-01-20 14:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by Lynn K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a pregnancy fact book. Something basic like What to Expect When Youre Expecting. Tell him to read it & stop being a jerk.
2007-01-20 13:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by birdie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have him carry around six five pound bricks attached to his stomach while he is working, going up the stairs, and shopping for food. His lack of empathy is disturbing, and I hope your situation gets better.
2007-01-20 14:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband? Sounds more like your dad. Tell him to ask his mother these questions before he brings them to you!
2007-01-20 14:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get his mother on your side, and then ask her to tell him.
2007-01-20 13:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by MLS99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you, I really do. You are married to a loser.
2007-01-20 15:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋