It seems the last few guys I've met we go on a couple of dates and then when it comes for time to hook up they want to come here instead of their pad, what gives? Is this a guys way of not taking you serious, or is because he is trying to be considerate. I would really like some guy feedback. Thanks!
2007-01-20 13:51:15 · 19 answers · asked by Sherry P 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, ifn you wanna come over to my place, you're welcome!?!?
But, I'm guessin' he's got a wife tucked away at his pad, hun!?!?
2007-01-20 13:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A number of possibilities.
1. They don't have their own place.
2. They have horrible living conditions. (Roommates, bad area, low standard of living.)
3. They have a girlfriend or wife.
4.They don't or just aren't ready for you to know where they live (people with comment issues or paranoid)
5. (And mostly, I think) Once they're finished they can leave and don't have to worry about kicking you out.
2007-01-20 14:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ash 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are hiding something. It could be that they are a complete slob and don't want you to see how messy they are, it could be that they don't want you to know too much about them (such as where they live), it could be that they live with their parents or have a roommate, or it could mean that they have a girlfriend or wife. If you only want sex from them, it shouldn't be a problem (as long as they don't have a girlfriend or wife); if you are wanting a future relationship you should know what they are hiding before jumping in the sack with them.
2007-01-20 14:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oddviously , your playing the field here hons. think about it your hooked on married men and your the second fiddle. wake up and smell the coffe hons. they asre married got a station, wagon, full, of kids, and your playing right along with itt. there not taking you serious right.
2007-01-20 14:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he HAVE his own place? Does he live with somebody else that may be there? Maybe it's something like that, or he's a slob, and don't want you to see how dirty he is.(Could be a turn off!)
2007-01-20 13:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be suspicious. Is there a wife or girl friend at home that he doesn't want you to meet? Or worse, does he live in his mom's basement? Creepy. I'd insist on going to his place, that way if he sucks, you can always bail.
2007-01-20 13:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by Goofy Foot 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Cause they have a girlfriend at home waiting for them so they can't take you to their place
2007-01-20 13:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by Roxy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your jumping into sex after only a few dates, i don't think it has anything to do with feelings or being considerate... it's probably just a matter of what's convienient for him..
2007-01-20 14:01:02 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Their wives tend to frown on it. Not kidding. I may be gay, but I've probably been with more married men then "just single gay men." sigh
2007-01-20 13:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you post a question on Yahoo it asks you what section you want it to be posted in.
Of all the choices how did you scroll through and decide that Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered was the best place to stick your question?
2007-01-20 14:01:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋