theres this dude who i really like in alabama and i live in texas but theres a guy i like in my town but i dont wanna break his heart what do i do
2007-01-20 13:49:28 · 12 answers · asked by urdirtylittlesecret 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
when he calls you talk to him then when your not talking to him you cheat on him lmao
2007-01-20 13:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you have to visit Alabama one day and try to talk to him (tell them the truth)then when you go home to Texas you have also to talk to the other guy(tell them the truth)then see what are they going to do and after that you will see who's better and forget the other.
remember:-if you can't go to Alabama chat with him)
-if the one in Texas is better you can make the other your pen friend ONLY.
2007-01-28 05:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by yoya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a decision, either go the Alabama or stay in Texas. Goodness it isn't rocket science
2007-01-27 10:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask yourself......who is this guy in alabama....what do i know about him...and why is he not here with you now...maybe its an age thing...meaning he is to young to be on his own...but then ask yourself about this guy there with you..........who is he...why do you like him...is he the one...(is he rich...just jokin)...but if he seems as though he could be the one then give him a try...this guy in alabama will be there...that is if he's not dating someone as you read this...you'll never know with him there and you 2000 miles away...look at your heart girl and see what it says...but keep your options open...your still young yet...and you have plenty of time...who knows maybe mr. right isn't either one of these guys...he may be in alaska...watch your heart cause no one else will...remember your special...and you have to look out for you...good luck and i hope your heart guides you in the right direction...
2007-01-27 04:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by hystericaly_kinky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 21:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by canevazzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear,
Follow the true feelings inside your heart...
Distance has nothing to do with your decision...
But the problem I faced in your question is that I DID NOT FIND THE WORD "LOVE" as a feeling towards any of the two guys...
One piece of an advice my dear.....
NEVER EVER SYMPATHY WITH A PERSON WHEN IT COMES TO LONG-TERM RELATIONS...
You will feel good & positive inside NOT BRAKING SOMEONE'S HEART, but no sooner you will feel you have BROKEN YOUR OWN HEART, and will start re-acting towards it accordingly & negatively...
Be decisive, and look inside your heart...It will surely tell you WHO YOU WISH TO BE WITH...
No sympathy please....only solid "I know what / who I want"!!!
2007-01-27 06:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have a better chance at a successful relationship with someone whom you can actually see.
Just be honest with the one in Alabama, and tell him the truth.
2007-01-20 13:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh c'mon girls, thats not your question. u suppose to say how do i deal. you just making question for us and we answer as our own question. when u do that its like different speech. and doesn't help u any thing. no offense
example ehsanbana say "Follow the true feelings inside your heart..." but the question is asking what should ensanbana do.
2007-01-27 06:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by chajen v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write pros and cons of both guys. He lives far away? Not worth it. Hes probably already cheating on you.
2007-01-28 11:33:13 · answer #9 · answered by Val® 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how interesting well think to yourself for a minute. how do you feel about these two men? think about the pros and cons about these guy and let your heart decide.
2007-01-27 13:47:57 · answer #10 · answered by Britt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here or 2000 miles away I don't see a delima here
2007-01-20 13:57:07 · answer #11 · answered by pooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋