there is this girl shes really preppy and she always tries to suck up to me and i dont wanna be friends with her
2007-01-20 13:44:32 · 19 answers · asked by urdirtylittlesecret 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell her to her face and why you dont want to and then afterwards, ignore her and dont feel sorry for her
2007-01-27 15:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Chika cha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be friends with her. once there was a new girl in school and some of my friends wanted to be mean to her but i felt bad because i thought if it was me who was the new girl, i'd be scared, so i talked to her and made her feel welcome even though my friends thought i had gone off the deep end. it turned out, this girl was really nice after all, we remained friends for a long long time and some of my favorite childhood stories involve situations where her and i were hanging out. maybe you should give this girl a chance. you might be glad you did, and if i'm wrong, oops, sorry.
2007-01-28 13:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by iwondersoiask 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I've got the same thing going on too. I've told her FOUR TIMES that I didn't want her friend but she doesn't listen. Now I just feel like screaming at her, but I stay calm. Try telling her nicely that you don't want to be her friend, if doesn't listen the first time you need to tell her calmly but not like your not serious. That was my mistake. I wish you the best of luck!
2007-01-28 20:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by Bubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no what u mean like a year ago i had this girl who hanged out with my friends and me and she really annoyed me so i started like being a little mean but not to harsh and she like a few days later she hanged with a new set of people its just how u show ur self be the bigger person
2007-01-28 08:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is ever someone you do not particularly care for, you must assert yourself. Let them know you are busy, never rude or too kind just assertive. Oh! dont forget to smile.
2007-01-20 21:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me too. This girl followed me nonstop. I mean this sounds mean but it works just tell her she can't sit with you or hang with you but if you can't do that tell her nicely that you think she is being snobby and if she wants to hang out with you she had to be nicer and not as snobby. This happened to my one friend she was being disgusting and we told her she couldn't sit with us if she kept that up and she stopped and now we are closer than we were.
2007-01-28 19:41:21 · answer #6 · answered by bleedgreen108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you just don't like her and to please leave you alone. If that doesn't get rid of her, then you might have to resort to swearing like a sailor until she runs away crying and never wants to talk to you again. But that's only if you don't have a soul, so you probably want to stay away from that option unless you absolutely can't avoid it!
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2007-01-28 20:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Phyliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well give the poor girl a chance. talk to her and maybe you will find something in common with her. if still things don't work out then tell her about it.
2007-01-28 16:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her and don't give her a chance to suck up to you. You don't have to listen when she talks, just excuse yourself and walk away.
2007-01-28 19:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by Vix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, and believe it or not as you get older you will find grown up women who will act this same way, it is unnerving. Get her as far away from you as possible.
2007-01-25 05:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋