we argue from time to time because i need passion in this marriage, and cant stand that he tries to control me. why is he that way? i forgave him but never forgot what he did to me. lets put it this way, when i was 4months pregnant i found out i had an STD. nuff said
2007-01-20 13:20:57 · 10 answers · asked by mary aries 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my ex was a Virgo and he also was a cheater and after we split up he got remarried and did the same thing to her.. but unlike me she gave as good as she got.. she cheated on him.. he told everyone that he left me because i could not have kid.. i got 2 girls now.. and after 7 yr after he was married and there son was 6yrs old they went to the doctor to find out way they were not having any more kids.. guess what the boy was not his and he was sterile... he could not have kids and they had brought a home together .. he would lose everything if he left her and the person that he married was such a control freak... she only gave him a couple of dollars a day as a allowance.. so i guess she gave me my best revenge... they have been married 22 yrs i hope they stay married another 22 yrs... hell i hope she out lives him and she is 11 yrs older than he is...
2007-01-20 15:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like hes no good. If he reallyloved you he wouldnt control you, he would treat you like a princess and for two he wouldnt have cheated on you, pregnant or not! If you stay he'll keep doing things to hurt you because hes gotten away with it so far. Leave him and work on yourself esteem, the God will send you a good man when he feels your ready. I went through the same thing, i didnt get an std because i had a difficult pregancy and was told not to have sex for the first couple of months, but i left my ex when i was five month pregnant. I went back to school, and when i least expected it God sent my now husband to me. I know its hard but its something you gotta do if you wanna be happy and have a happy life for your child! Hope everything works out and I'll pray for you girl!
2007-01-20 21:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by marinewife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not surprised you don't trust him. I know how you feel about the cheating part cos my hubby's done it several times too. I guess now that you've suffered the consequences of his cheating, it really is up to you as to whether you can live with it or not. As far as controlling is concerned, controlling type people will try and control you simply because they know they can. If they see you as weaker they will exploit it any way they can. To reverse this, you will need to stand up to him, confronting a bully is usually the quickest way to get them to back down. I hope this helps
2007-01-20 21:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by Vanessa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like me im also a virgo my husband is a aquaris. he also cheated when i was six months pregnant. but he moved in with his ex for a week came back and said it was a mistake yada yada yada..... it is hard to trust again he still sees this girl cuz they have a kid together. He is very controlling and verbally abusive. well I am thinking about leaving but, it is hard to just get up and go. well good luck I am also thinking of spying on his butt!!
2007-01-20 21:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by socalgal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? He gave u STD once and u still stayed with him. for what?
LEAVE. He doesnot care abt his health but I am sure you do. Mentally and physically.
YOU DESERVE BETTER.
2007-01-20 21:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm an Aries, too. You only get to sh!t on me once.
2007-01-20 21:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should have left him once u found out u had an std n wat makes u thing he stopped cheating cos they never stop
2007-01-20 21:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by lilac. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does astrology have anything to do with this?
2007-01-20 21:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And your question is????????????????????
"Do our signs mean anything?" NO
"Is he cheating on me" YES
"Should I stay?" ARE YOU KIDDING?
2007-01-20 21:25:28 · answer #9 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm.....why are you still with him? that is what you should be asking your self
2007-01-20 21:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋