2007-01-20 12:56:25 · 14 answers · asked by Bob Danvers-Walker 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes and still am nearly 4 years on and still havent been caught .
2007-01-21 00:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have had an affair been the other woman. Me and my boyfriend had split up and i started to see this guy from work and being niave as i was did not know he was married. However, when i did find out i could not stop seeing him (cant choose who you fall in love with right?) Anyway his wife must have gotten an idea as he was out late most weekends or never went home and i eventually got a call from her telling me to stay away. It never stopped me. Eventually i got a shock that would change us forever and it ended. He recently got back in touch again and im trying hard to resist but its hard but i learned the hard way so am very wary now
2007-01-21 00:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by susan d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, simply because I've never cheated on anyone and I never will. What's the point in cheating? If you've found someone else, then why don't you leave the person you're with and let them get on with their life?
If you want a funny story about someone cheating and getting found out, here's one a read a while ago that actually led to a divorce.
A married guy was seeing another woman and would often go to work and call in sick on his way and spend the day with his secret lover instead. This guy picked the wrong day to go see his girlfriend (or maybe the right day, depending on which way you look at it), you see he worked in the WTC and decided not to go in on the morning of 11th September. He switched his phone off and spent the morning in bed with her, oblivious to the terrorist attacks. He later turned his phone back on around noon and it rang straight away, his wife had been trying to reach him after seeing the news, obviously worried and fearing the worst, when he answered she asked where he was to which he replied "What do you mean where am I? I'm in the office of course" DOH!!
2007-01-20 13:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by DJ Rizla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't really an affair I had broken up with my bf of over a year because he was cheating on me. Then I started dating another guy then all of a sudden my ex decided he wanted to be faithful to me. So I ignored it and continued what I was doing. So he left me a note on my car and asked me to stop by so that we could talk I saw no harm in it so I went. When I got there he started to question me about who I was seeing and I told him no one because I felt like it was none of his business anyway. As soon as I said that the guy I was dating at the time came out of a back room and started yelling at me like oh we not ******* and all this other stuff I tried to explain to him that it was none of his business but it was too late I had basically been set up by the two of them. It ruined my relationship with the new guy and I completely stopped dealing with my ex. Things happen for a reason because now both of them are not doing **** for themselves so I guess it worked out better for me.
2007-01-20 13:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I never cheated but my ex wife did.It went on 2 years before suspecting anything.I found out by accident.I found the cell phone bills and seen a bunch of calls to the same number.After checking the number it wasn't hard to figure out what was going on.
2007-01-20 13:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did once. Although it no excuse i was dating a real loser but I didnt have thenerve to dump him. I had tried to end things but he talked me out of it. I was weak at the time so I didnt end it.
I started dating him to help me get over another guy. He was a crap boyfriend. We only ever went on one date. One day I insisted he took me out and I ended up paying cos he claimed there was some problem with his credit card. He was a sexual prude. He kept on going on about how beautiful Beyonce was even after I had told him it was getting on my nerves. He kept going on about how pretty I would be if i lost a little weight. He went on and on and on about himself and how he would soon be a millionaire... blah blah blah
The final straw was when he suggested i marry im so that he could have stay in the UK. I told him I didnt love him (I didnt love him, I could barely stand him!) and so I couldnt marry him. After I declined his crap marriage proposal he became very difficult to get on the phone, he made himself scarce.
So during my birthday I flew to Denmark and hooked up with an old flame. I switched my phone off for 4 days. My "boyfriend" left various messages on my phone during that time. When I returned to the UK I phoned him back and he hung up on me. i took that to mean the relationship was over. It was a satisfactory conclusion to the relationship as far as I was concerned.
He called me back months later when i had become involved with someone else....
i dont advocate cheating, and given a 2nd chance i wold have just dumped him earlier rather than cheating on him. But at the same time, i dont regret doing what i did. had a great time in Denmark too!!
2007-01-21 02:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by Chimera's Song 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but I caught my 1st husband - and the reason I caught him ? because he was dumb and left a love letter from his new lady in his jeans which I was dutifully checking for tissues before I washed them.
2007-01-21 10:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by zsphodge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. My "best friend" got mad at me (over something she thought I said that I didn't) and decided to tell my husband.
2007-01-20 13:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by singleagain062005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. and No I wasn't caught
2007-01-20 12:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by Monique M 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
No, I've never had an affair. I cherish my marriage.
2007-01-20 12:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by Katie 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋