I'm 15 and I know that since two years ago i have been sexually attracted to males, only you know looking at them, never ever wanted sexual relations or some stuff like that.But u know while thinking about what might come, i just realized now that i DO want all these things that regular guys want you know like a girlfriend, calling a girl baby, and all that sh it and i seriously do want a girl to love and spoil and all those thngs. What i really want to know is that will it work if i stay sexually attracted to men even though i want all those things?
2007-01-20 12:32:22 · 10 answers · asked by Martin 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
don't be in a hurry to label yourself. hormones are going nuts inside you right now. your body will tell you when you find the right person. until then just enjoy your youth.
2007-01-20 12:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
hy hons boyfriends daviie and steeviie. only if you turn a bit older here maybe towards 17, and when you hit around i8 and you only think you want too go the gay route. we, always tell young males, that at the point you turn around i8 if your still confused about your sexeaul idenity, wait until your i8.WHY BECAUSE when you turn around 18 if you are ready too just about leave, the nest, and out of high scholl and if your, wanting too turn gay, do it off on your own, get your own place and never ever drag it home. bad move. off on your own working not listening too some body elses complaining if you turn 18 and go the gay route. home life can be very veery confusing and ounce off on your own at i8 it makes it much easier. right now take a few years until your i8 too really think hard about what you want if it is the gay route or what. we never felt right about being in some body elses house besides friends now being gay. and the dads in the families can be very very bitter and hatefull.
2007-01-20 14:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Tegarst...but I also recognize, in what you're saying, myself as a teenager. It takes a while to get used to being gay. But it's really not so bad, if it turns out that it's who you are. And there's no reason that you can't have everything a straight guy has--just not like you see it in the movies. But if you're gay, and you fall in love with the right person, you'll realize that what happens in the movies isn't nearly as important as what's happening to you in real life.
2007-01-20 13:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know you still can call your male partner, baby & honey.
My brother is gay, and all his friends call each other girlfriends!
I'm sure you will find a guy who would like to be spoiled too!!
best of luck with any adventure you choose.
2007-01-20 12:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by 520 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow....im 16 and felt just like you 1-2 years ago...dude let me tell you...you'll know soon enough...but in my opinion, to answer the question, the answer is no. i TOTALLY know that thats not what you wanna hear. im a really masculine guy and i hate the stereotypical gay men. but it just happens that i love guys instead of girls. and i still find women incredibly sexy but im just not sexually attracted to women. im deff. gonna miss being a dad and getting married and all that but you just have to accept yourself for who u are u know?
and unfortunetly, relationships simply cannot work w/o sex.
i really hopes this helps man!
good luck!
2007-01-20 18:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU'RE 15!!! Stop labeling yourself, it makes things a lot more confusing and it often stifles your growth because you keep thinking about yourself being a specific way.
2007-01-20 12:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by Xenia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, you are young and are just learning about the body. Just because you find a male attractive does not mean your gay. find you a girlfriend and enjoy life
2007-01-20 12:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by glamour04111 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That would pretty much make you bi-sexual and as far as I'm concerned, girls sort of find that a BIG turn off!
2007-01-20 12:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could be bi. I would get the girlfriend and see how it goes. Maybe then you won't be attracted to males anymore.
2007-01-20 12:36:16 · answer #9 · answered by Sharyn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have a long road ahead of you my friend. All I can say is be careful, and stay true to yourself; it's worth it in the long run.
2007-01-24 00:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋