Here is the down and dirty. A couple of years after I got married, I met one of my wife's friends and her husband. The were a cool couple and everything. One day a year later my wife told me that her friends husband was her ex boyfriend.....sorta. I'm like WTF! I never wanted to meet any past boyfriends. So I limit the friend and husband from interacting with my family. No birthday invites for their kids etc. Never want to see them. My wife and her friend grow apart. Any way, there is a third friend who is single, and friends with my wife and the other lady who is married to my wife's ex. Well the single friend and my wife were talking on the phone and I over heard them talking about the married friend and her husband. Something about him not payin attention to her. Anyway, my wife was asking about his mom! WTF! What do I do?
2007-01-20 12:31:45 · 7 answers · asked by Mike Polite 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't like it when she talks to her married girlfriend. I think the whole situation is twisted. How can the too of them be cool with this situation? My wife understands that it bothers me, but deep down she thinks that it's no big deal. I get so mad about it. Fellas, tell the truth.....You never want to meet your wife's former lovers. Its sick!
2007-01-20 12:33:54 · update #1
She and her friends were friends before the guy. The single friend introduced my wife to the guy. He had a thing with my wife and then six months later he meets the other friend and they end up married.
2007-01-20 12:45:01 · update #2
Look there was no need to ask about anyone that he knew. I don't want to see or hear about the guy. Perhaps im insecure but I didn't ask to meet the guy. She knew that I never wanted to meet him. She let me meet him and then later told me who he was. I almost divorced her over this. Now she talks about him and his mother on the phone? WTF!
2007-01-20 13:04:24 · update #3
Don't tell me you think your wife was a virgin before you. Yes you are over reacting. Asking about the mom just shows interest in people she knew and likes. Of course if you like the soap opera you could opt for therapy. Then when you call the therapist between visits your wife can get jealous over you and the shrink.
2007-01-20 12:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by gatzap 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly diverse the time while i'm caught observing a cleansing soap opera because I lost the distant and that kind of issues happens on the practice I particularly tend to react in an offended temper simply by fact of what's happening, here is somethings i might say or do... a million) Scream on the 'hero', "how are you able to no longer understand WHO TOOK HER?!" 2) question myself why the damsel in misery can no longer purely arise with some thank you to get out of there. 3) Scream on the 'villain' , "Is she incredibly freaking properly worth it?!" 4) seem for the distant greater or turn off the television.
2016-12-12 16:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are totally overacting. You should STRUT around and be PROUD....your wife choose YOU! This ex boyfriend---look at what he lost! She is with you. Be happy! If she is not chasing him, or giving you any reason for mistrust, then there is nothing to worry about. Don't alienate her from friends. Women love to gossip and console in each other. Let the women talk.
2007-01-20 12:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by HowdyThere 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tasha is an azz. You don't have control issues, I feel your pain dude. Why is there a need to talk about this dude? You know how the fellas get down. Its a dis if your lady is friends with a woman who was wit her. Gives me chills.
2007-01-20 12:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jedi Master AJ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are SO over reacting. I work with one of my husbands ex's and we get along just fine. My god, they aren't doing it behind your back. It is in the past , so leave it there and get over it
2007-01-20 12:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by Monique M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a control freak! Leave your wife alone and let her be her own person.
2007-01-20 12:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by Tasha 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your story is confusing but you sound like you are very insecure! She married you not him get over it.
2007-01-20 12:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋