your friend would keep calling u stupid...when its not true..........its mean and hurts and i get all b's averge. what would u do?
2007-01-20 11:57:21 · 16 answers · asked by hannah1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ive told her to stop
2007-01-20 12:05:07 · update #1
and that it hurts
2007-01-20 12:05:33 · update #2
she always has to compare us! just beacuse she gets as more than i do.
2007-01-20 12:09:54 · update #3
its kindof different though because ive known her since i was 3 or 4 years old and are sisters are bff and are parents are close friends two. so i dont want to reck it for everyone else.
2007-01-20 12:12:11 · update #4
tell that person to quit and that it's not funny. Say there's something wrong with people that have to knock others down to build themselves up, THAT'S stupid.
2007-01-20 12:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would stop especially if I kept telling her/him to stop. That is disrespectful, and it doesnt help you get better. If a B is what you get than that is good. Most people wish they had a B average. Tell them to stop, if they dont, then something is wrong, it is negativity. They are not really your friend, cut them off immediately, they are trying to bring you down. It is true that some of your "friends" are really your enemies smiling in your face. Jealous Ones Envy
2007-01-20 20:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by HustleGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I were you then I would tell her to stop calling you that because that is rude. I would not be friends with her if she has been doing this to you for a while. I think you also might want to try sitting down with her and talking to her about it. That might help to. I went through the same thing and all I had to do was talk to her. (my friend) GOOD LUCK!!!!!
2007-01-20 20:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by Caitlyn C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard to give up on your friends, so I understand that you don't want to. You have to ask them (in a calm way) why they are saying this to you!!! If the only response they give you is mean and they don't stop, you are going to have to find new friends. Your friends are not supposed to be mean to you, especially when they are not telling the truth. A "B" average is really nice! Don't worry. Just find people who will treat you properly. You deserve it.
2007-01-20 20:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by KB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this friend truly a friend? Do you feel badly around him and are constantly hurt then he/she says stupid.
This person is not a friend. Tell the person to stop and if it doesnt then you truly know what type of "friend" this is.
With friends like this who needs enemies.
Maybe this friend is jealous of your grades and need help...offer it or give up in him/her
2007-01-20 20:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by spider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try to talk it out. Be honest with her and tell her it hurts your feelings. If she's your friend, she'll understand and stop.
If she's defensive or makes excuses, it's time to move on. Friends should give and receive respect!
2007-01-20 20:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by DannyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is name calling, then tell her to stop. Let her know that it hurts you when she calls you that. Otherwise, find some other friends who accept you for who you are. Don't let your grades interrupt with your friends, friends should not be calling friends names.
2007-01-20 20:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl...you need to find a new friend! I would never call my friend stupid cause I love her and she means the world to me. I would call that idiot I don't really like stupid cause I really don't like her and I keep waiting for her to get the hint.....
2007-01-20 20:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would want a friend that is there for me, not to put me down. You don't need friends like that.
2007-01-20 20:01:28 · answer #9 · answered by B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if they are really your friend then they wouldnt be calling u stupid in the first place unless they are just joking and if they are just joking and it still bothers u let them know how much and if they keep doing it after that then get ghost on they ***!
2007-01-20 20:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋