Do I warn my friends and disappoint my brother? Or do I let my friends find out for themselves?
2007-01-20 11:51:25 · 7 answers · asked by JustLynn 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Sit back and enjoy the show. It could be fun to see the flirting, but before it gets too serious, then you can step up, and let things be known
2007-01-20 12:06:48 · answer #1 · answered by Cookie Monster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Warn your friends, your brothers aren't looking for Miss Right, they're looking for Miss Right Now. If you really are your friends' friend, you'll do the right thing and let them know that your brothers are players, that they like to date, and aren't looking for a commitment, that way, if your friends make the choice to go for it, they'll go in with their eyes wide open. Your brothers won't be disappointed, they'll be looking for the next girl. Your family is important, but so are your friends, your friends are the family you choose, the people you decide to let into your life. Honesty is the best policy, so be honest with your friends about your brothers, and be honest with your brothers about telling your friends that they're players. That way, no divided loyalty, you were honest with everyone, now, if they make the choice to pursue something, nobody can come back and make you out to be the bad guy.
2007-01-20 19:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by Angeleyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just be honest with your brothers first and ask them if they are in to dating any of your friends, they just might be, tell them that you love them and your friends and don't want to see anyone hurt.
That you really want to have a good time with all of them going out and being together, that is what is really important to you.
Leave the friends out of it for now, they are probably aware of your brother's and their player style. If not then just a slight joke or off hand remark about them might help to ease the situation. Remember too that most people have to learn the hard way if something does happen.
Hope you have a great time.
2007-01-20 20:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by It's been awhile 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Even if you tell them, they still may want to find out for themselves. So, you should just stay out of it.
2007-01-20 19:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by Evil Girl Geniuz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would be wise to let your friends find out baby
2007-01-20 19:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find out for themselves
2007-01-20 20:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's a tough one...but...blood is thicker than water...and there's nothing worse than a c0ckblocker..
2007-01-20 19:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋