weird call for hubby?

Question

Been happily married 16 yrs to a great guy who is very sweet,loving,kind and very good to me well anyways in late january of 2006 1 night when i had him go to the local small store for a few things the phone rang it was a girl she ask if hubby was home(she ask for him by name) and when i said no who is this she hung up on me right away well he said over and over for months that he didnt know anything about the call when i kept questioning him..I Totally believe him cause he is a good guy, a great husband and would never cheat on me or give another girl his number.. I never got another call like this and i just wanna know what other people think of this.

well no bills are in his name and phone number in phone book is in my name NOT his

like i said NO he wouldnt give another girl his number and true i cant explain how she would have gotten his number but he wouldnt do that..i know him

i dont keep "bugging" him about it i havent since like since last april or may and we dont have a cell phone

Answer 1

Unless it's a recurring problem, I would not be concerned about it. Might have been an old acquaintance that didn't know he was married, or somebody playing a joke on him. Unless it happens again, let it go. No need to worry!!

Answer 2

Just ask him who it was and it may have been a telemarketer or a bill collector... Do you have caller id? You could always check that and call the number back too. I am sure he probably does not even know who she is and by the way if this is the first time this has happened give him the benefit of the doubt but if it keeps happening and it is her voice or other women then get suspicious.

Answer 3

Well cookie, I kind of know how you feel though I am not married I am committed to a wonderful guy. Once when I was on the phone with him, his line clicked and he tells me it's this girl that has a crush on him. It was super late when she called. I was super upset when he told me that it was her, but he promised me that he didn't care anything about her and that his best friend had given her his number. Anyway, the thing is people who aren't in relationships and want to be, become vendictive. They don't want to see you happy. Misery loves company. They would love for you to get so upset that you end things with a great guy and there willing to do anything. So keep your head up sweetie, sounds like you have a great guy. They have something to be jealous of but don't even give them a second thought. That's what I had to realize. Good luck sweetie!

Answer 4

If this is something that never happens I wouldn't get to worked up and I would believe your husband. We have telemarketers call here and ask for both or us by our fist names. It's outrageous. I have had to call people for different reasons in the past, sometimes work or other things and I know it can be uncomfortable when the other spouse or g/f answers the phone. I always tell them who I am and why I am calling. Some younger people may not do that. Don't worry dear, it will be fine.

Answer 5

You know, people have gut feelings about stuff for a reason. I dont think that it is wrong to keep an eye on things if you are suspicious. Check through his cell phone for strange numbers and call them if you want to. Just dont let the suspicions run your life, or ruin your relationships. I know that if that had happened to me, I would be VERY suspicious, since she asked for him by name. Just keep an eye on things and dont let yourself be made a fool of. Best of luck hun, I hope it was nothing and that your guy isnt like a lot of them out there.

Answer 6

My wonderful hubby of 10 years has an 18 year old blond on his staff and for some reason she text mess. him A LOT. I hear that dam text ring and I go a little crazy....that being said, hubby does not have control over the girl texting him. I was a little miffed at HIM for a while, but have come to realize it must really suck to be him when that dam thing goes off and he gets that look from ME.
Cut your hubby a little slack, but make sure he does not make it a habbit to let the girls have his number.

Answer 7

If that happened 12 months ago, and nothing has happened since, give him the benefit of the doubt.
For all you know, it could have been a bill collector (they ask for people by name)
or it could have been someone from his old high school.
If this just happened, I would say *69 the number and see who the number came back to, but since you let a year go by, i say just forget about it

Answer 8

If the bills nor the phone is in his name then I'm sorry but he had to have given her the number!!! What else would explain her call? Watch out she may be calling him somewhere else now so that there's no way for you to answer. Good luck!!

Answer 9

She could NOT have known his number since it was in your name, UNLESS he either told her your name or gave out the number to her. REMEMBER that women's intuition has a lot to say for itself. It is God's way of tellins us, "Something is fishy in Denmark"!

My x-hubby had ALL THE RIGHT things to say too, so trust worthy I thought. He treated me like GOLD.

I HACKED some things after an email I got from a woman telling me she loved my hubby, and all. I wrote her BACK as HIM & found out he's had a one nighter with her. HE denied it all UNTIL I printed up the email with her REAL NAME, ADDRESS, & PHONE NUMBER! The stupid braud even told me when she would be home if I [he] wanted to drop by for a roll in the hay!

Trust God ... Not Man! Love your hubby, but remember that sometimes we trust too much and it becomes idol worship, and God is a jealous God and will allow things to happen sometimes to wake us up to that fact.

PRAY about it, email me & I can help you find some things out. Ok? [e-mail]

Answer 10

Well don't keep hounding him about it. Do you have caller id, can you call the # back and see who it is? If you keep bugging him about it, he may just decide to go out and cheat anyway. I would maybe visit him at work or check his cell phone bills for any #'s that you do not know. If you visit him at work it will remind his co-workers that he is taken.