Im now in the high school, me and my friend from middle school (were) really tight! Now i made a coulpe new friend and they hate me!!!!!!!!!!!!!! : ( I like my new friends but my middle school friends only egnore me. they never invit me to any thing. as now as i speak (write) they are all together hanging out! i like my new friends alot!!!!!! but its bugges me when some one hates me!!!
2007-01-20 11:43:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
P.S. we are all the same age and grade!!
2007-01-20 11:47:43 · update #1
And i always try to invite them over but they are alway with eachother!!!
2007-01-20 11:56:06 · update #2
It's just the age gap.
They will come around when they move to your school.
2007-01-20 11:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that they feel ignored of as though you no longer like them because you have made new friends?
I doubt they hate you , I know my wife had the same issues with friends in high school, but she was the type that would just come out and ask them what the problem was.
Anyways don't take it personal.
2007-01-20 19:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by rev_rbm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just want to say talk to them and keep a cool head when you talk to them. In ALL relationships you need to learn to talk. For all you know, it may be you who did something without realizing it that hurt them first. Or it may be because with your new friends you don't have time for them anymore. So it may seem to them anyway. You will also have problems when you start dating for the same reason. You will be spending time with your b/f or g/f and that will be time taken away from your other friends. You need to talk to them and let them know you realize you have less time for "everybody", but assure them that they are still important to you. Just make sure you "make" some time for them too. I also agree that when they move up from middle school, it will be trying times for them too. Hopefully you will still be there to help them through it, with words of wisdow from someone who already went down that road. Good luck.
2007-01-20 20:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by jomega 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my daughter is going through same kind of thing....the old friends are feeling left out and at your guys' age, that is hard to deal with maturlaly. Instead of talking to you about it, they tend to be real bitchie and honestly sweetie, it is insecurity. They are jelous of your new friends and afraid you will find fault with them.
If they are treating you badly, then thank goodness you found out now how nasty they are. They are not your true friends and good riddance to 'em!
2007-01-20 19:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should realize that you should always be yourself and if someone hates you for it, **** them. You should be better than that, learn to be outgoing and they'll invite you out again when you get all the popular people...but by that time, you might be too good for them!
2007-01-20 19:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by Chris C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if they were really ur friends they would except that u made some new friends and that yall can still hangout. I have a bunch of friends and they usually make friends with my new friends.
hope everything works out.
2007-01-20 19:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt care what anybody thinks of u...they only jealous that you made new friends and they couldn't have been your friends in the first place if they dumped u cause u made new friends
2007-01-20 19:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to ur old friends
2007-01-20 19:47:00 · answer #8 · answered by ☠Rockerchick☠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋