i'm in my late 30s,have a good job,house,and no baggage.i dated this guy for 5 yrs that was divorced with a contolling in your face exwife and a spolied rotten kid that demanded all his dads attention and money.now add the fact he had no money at 34 from giving everything to his ex from guilt over the divorce and expected me to pay off his debt(18k) that his exwife got him into.think this is bad enough to make anyone run?well now add the fact that he is a chronic cheater/lier.cheated on his wife multible times.told me she drove him to it maybe so because she is a nasty b-tch.but that does not explain why after he left his wife for a old gf cheated on the old gf multible times too then left her too.i'm sure he has cheated on me at one time or anouther,caught him many times with emails from old gf.the problem was he allways turned it around to make me look like i was the one with the problem.i was a fool for 5yrs please don't let this happen to you.
2007-01-20 11:41:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sorry I am in the same boat.
7 years with a female that doesn't love me. Only barks orders.
2007-01-20 11:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the root of most "heart" problems or pains aint "the feeling" for that person. we only go thru that cus of our selfishness, we want things the way we want them, and if they dont happen that way then it hurts, but is not the heart the one that hurts. but our pride. thats the only reason why we accept all this kind of attitudes and abuses.... cus NO matter what, things HAVE to be our way or the way we want them, we want that man 's love, NO MATTER what, not even if he is abusive. cheater blah blah blah, once we understand that the world doesnt go around us, that life aint about US and things doesnt HAVE to be the way we want, everything is so easy and find happiness as well
LOVE IS NOT BLIND, love is pure and doesnt need anything, just has preferences, PRIDE BLIND US, SELFISHNESS HURT US..... NOT LOVE!!!
good to see that you finally got out of that sick relationship, now do your best to not fall again. learn your lesson
2007-01-20 21:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u werent a fool, just in love and love IS blind. YOU just dont let this happen to u again...
2007-01-20 19:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you gettting out of that situation. Too many don't!!
2007-01-20 19:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋