I believe that 100% of the reason for my divorce was my marriage since we were fine for one whole year before she put that ring on my finger. Then exactly to the day one more year later she moved out which was exactly how long she needed to be married to satisfy the terms of her secret inheritance which otherwise she could not touch until she was 25!
2007-01-20 11:39:23 · 16 answers · asked by keithanthony0169 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have been a fool for love. Obviously this lady was just a gold digger.
I hope for your own sake that you have learnt from a very nasty experience and that you will not leave too bitter regarding the opposite sex.
Trying to find out all you would like to know about a future spouse is idealistic but the more you dig all information, share feelings, past, fill the blanks where necessary is advisable.
Your situation is quite unique but generally speaking, once married, people feel more comfortable , safe and let themselves go. Too often, once the chase is over, all the bad habits surface.
People are not on their "best behaviour" anymore.
Sadly this is also the main cause of divorce.
2007-01-20 11:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by Erika R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to get over her. Her marriage to you was for selfish reasons only and traits like that dont normally change in a person.
As for her secret inheritance at age 25... She is probably too young to be married to begin with. Looking at your picture you seem to be considerably older than her. Unless you are loaded with money it would not have lasted anyway. Money is her motive and she would keep climbing the ladder til she found a man with the kind of money she thought was enough.
No man (or woman) needs a gold digger.
2007-01-20 11:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with your marriage was there was a serious lack of communication. Because she obvioulsy suckered you into marrying her so she could get that money. Not ALL women are like that, nor are all marriages. My wife and I have been married for 10 years and are very much in love today.
2007-01-20 12:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i dont not believer or agree with this statement... Marriage is what you choose to make of it.... Putting the ring on the finger makes do difference to the heart or how we should treat and love each other.
2007-01-20 11:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
phuck the bytch, call an attorney and sue her. She used you, why not use her back! I assume you never knew about this secret inheritance so she was not honest in her reasons for marrying you.
Turnabout his fair play.
She ruined a good part of your life, get your due compensation.
2007-01-20 12:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a wonderful institution with one major flaw. We usually make bad choices in who to marry. Live and learn and keep your pockets sealed tight!
2007-01-20 11:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this world today, people will do absolutely anything for money. That's why they say that money is the root to all evil. And it's true! That is one thing that I keep to myself is my own personal finances. To me things such as this is best kept quiet and unknown to everyone! That should be your own personal information
2016-03-29 06:45:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my question or questions to you are.
1) did you know about the arrangements before hand?
2)did you believe she was going to share it with you?
3)who appears to be the cause of the divorce?
i say the money caused your divorce watson,
you were the one who believed that it was going to work.
**answer= sue her for spousal support .
good luck
2007-01-20 11:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's fairly obvious. Without marriage you cannot divorce.
2007-01-20 11:42:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a joke right, you can't get a divorce unless u get married. DEHDEHDEH
2007-01-20 11:55:28 · answer #10 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋