i'm in my late 30s,have a good job,house,and no baggage.i dated this guy for 5 yrs that was divorced with a contolling in your face exwife and a spolied rotten kid that demanded all his dads attention and money.now add the fact he had no money at 34 from giving everything to his ex from guilt over the divorce and expected me to pay off his debt(18k) that his exwife got him into.think this is bad enough to make anyone run?well now add the fact that he is a chronic cheater/lier.cheated on his wife multible times.told me she drove him to it maybe so because she is a nasty b-tch.but that does not explain why after he left his wife for a old gf cheated on the old gf multible times too then left her too.i'm sure he has cheated on me at one time or anouther,caught him many times with emails from old gf.the problem was he allways turned it around to make me look like i was the one with the problem.i was a fool for 5yrs please don't let this happen to you.
2007-01-20 11:38:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Powerful words from a Lady that "has been there, and done that"! You have done a lot of good here tonight...nothing beats experience talking! Glad you got out of that situation. Good Luck in the future!!
2007-01-20 11:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean you have no baggage??? OMG Go back over and reread what you just wrote. Sorry but its usually the ones who claim that they have NO baggage that have the most. C'mmon ! If you have a past then you have baggage. Everyone does to some degree. Time to let go sweetie. Been there done that myself
2007-01-20 20:22:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is blind, somehow we never think it is us that is going to get cheated on, stepchildren do drain the relationship of assetts, they do sometimes give everything to the kids to make up for feeling guilt. they keep us just long enough to get what they want and when we catch on to their little game, it's over, they can't get anything else from us, so they move on to the next victim.
2007-01-20 19:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Days of our Lives. You really have to get to know a person before settling down with them don't you.
2007-01-20 19:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋