Okay I have this guy who has given me music lesson and he's always asking me if I would like to sign up for more, but I told him I was going through financail difficualty and couldn't so he offered me a follow up free sessions, he said he has that diecreation who he wants to give one too, so he seen me, and told me to call hm for the free follow up session, and I contacted him regarding the free follow up session, and he told me that he would like to my friend, he'd like to hang out with me, and he went on to say that he thought that I was very attractive, a couple of days later at 12:00 midnight he asked me if I wanted to come in too see him for the follow up session on tueday at 9 I told him I couldn't, so he said call him when I have an hour free but then he called me a few days later, out of the clear blue, but didn't leave a message, And I'm thinking didn't he tell me to let him know when I was available so why is he calling me?Can Anyone tell me what the deal is with this guy
2007-01-20 11:24:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
plus, i seen him at my gym, and he asks me when will I be back ...
2007-01-20 11:25:06 · update #1
hes a stalker.... run.
2007-01-24 10:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by user name 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is trying to make $$ off of you, because it wouldn't be too smart to call someone at 12 midnight. That would only piss someone off. It sounds like he wants you to play his rusty trumbone. I bet he was up all night thinking about you and couldn't take it anymore so he called you. There's a couple things you can do. If you don't think he is a rapist/murderer than you can take advantage of him giving you free music lessons. I would he doesn't seem to give a rat's azz if you were sleeping and woke you up at 12 midnight so screw him too. But if you get closer to him he could really become obsessed with you! I would do it, but I'm a guy so it's different. I can handle my own. It's really a tough call, only you can decide if he is just really attracted to you or if he is some weirdo like you say he is. Has he done anything a weirdo would do? It just sounds like someone who is attracted to you that's all there's nothing weird about that, that's human. You can either benefit from this situation or lose, that's up to you and how you play your cards.
2007-01-20 19:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by yeehaw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lonely Guy.... Sad huh.....
OK you think he's a little off, Tell HIM that your not interested in him THAT way.
Never talk with him alone. Always move away...
If you don't Like him let him know. Also tell others around you so they can watch out for you, like at the gym...
Good Luck... He's just likes you way to much... And will do anything to be near you... Sad...
2007-01-20 19:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by Shattered Moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect that he is a married Perv that is looking to take advantage of a financially strapped student. I would change music teachers ASAP and find some guy friend to send him a message @ the gym.
2007-01-20 19:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like this guy is romantically interested in you. If the feelings aren't mutual, I'd just go see him, or return one of his calls and be honest, and just tell him that he's a nice guy and all, etc., but you're just not interested in him.
2007-01-20 19:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by becka_225 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's just trying to sell his services, as most business people will. Just because he said you're attractive, means nothing. That's just how they work, they try to be as close to you as possible, so that later they can make more off of you.
2007-01-20 19:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by mydieingpromisex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's attracted to you and not too good at picking up women.
2007-01-20 19:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK you say "WEIRD" right off the get go....follow what your stomach is telling you. Blow him off..tell him your "new" BF is going to be teaching you instead.
2007-01-20 19:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by Thankyou4givengmeaheadache 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
simple. He's inappropriate. Take up them usic lessons when you can afford them from someone else
2007-01-20 19:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by freshbliss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...he's a creepy stalker guy?
2007-01-20 19:28:01 · answer #10 · answered by jamie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋