Girls, does your b/f do his fair share of housework?

Question

or does he sit around watching football an drinking lager, expecting you to do it all?
is that fair????????????????

Answer 1

My man works hard, outside and long hours. I let him sit around, relax or sleep, drink, watch tv, play video games or whatever he likes because he deserves it.

I stay home and care for the house and the kids and because I let him relax when he needs to he helps me out when he sees I need a hand.With out me asking him to and it is great.

Answer 2

My b/f does more than his fair share. He works away from home a lot and when he's home, I expect to do everything for him because he works so hard and puts a roof over my head and takes care of me. But he does loads around the home - washing, hoovering, shopping, etc. We try to do these things together and share it, but I wouldn't mind if I had to do it all. I work full-time too, but I feel he works much harder than me (he works on oil rigs and it's a tough job) so I would be happy to do everything so he can just chill out at home.

Answer 3

I think it depends on the circumstances.

I work full time and my partner only works part time.
So she does a lot of the housework. I think I'm fair though.
I'll push the hover round and do 'Man' jobs.

I'm not being sexist but there are Man jobs....
Sorting out the felting on the roof, fixing the garden gate, going into the loft etc... Things you'd break your nails on or end up injuring yourself.

Answer 4

Do you help him put up a shelf, or fix the car. Dont be a nagg, get off your p.c. and do your choars , not forgetting to make sure he has a can of lager in his hand at all times, then at bedtime put on your sexiest lingerie and do your other duties. Was he a lazy couch potato before you married him? if so you knew what you were getting into so dont try to change him.

Answer 5

My husband definitley does his fair share of housework and i like to help him keep the housework up and done around here... We love doing things like this together. It is not fair at all for one spouse to expect the other to do it all....

Answer 6

Mine's watching tv and doing the laundry at the same time. He also made himself some soup 'cause he was hungry. Some mornings he gets up early and cleans and he's not one to grumble or shy away from helping out if I ask him.

Of course this was not always the case. He used to be helpful but not so happy about it. We went through some major changes in our marriage.

Answer 7

Honey,honey,honey if this man you are going to married and he always kicks back and don't once in awhile help out I suggest you kick him to the curve. Some men will help out with making dinner/take out the trash, small things like that, but don't expect most men to do 50/50 that very rare. Woman will always be the one to do most of the work so get use to it or be alone.

Answer 8

i am not a girl but my wife is full time at university and i work from home, i do most of the household chores and my wife helps when she can, we are equal partners in life,even before she went back into study we shared the chores evenly between us,i thought that is what marriage was all about we share everything

Answer 9

Not fair share at all, mine does not get off the sofa until he needs a pee. I even pick out his clothes most days,and tell what he is having for dinner.

Answer 10

Absolutely not!

He does not expect me to do it all, but makes no effort to help!

He makes promises all the time and then helps for a week or two, then it stops.

It is absolutely not fair.

I have tried everything, nothing works. He is happy to be a pig!