ok well me and my boyfriend wanna have sex but we can't cuze he dosen't have any condoms i want to by some when i go to the store but its embarrassing when people are around iam 14 and my boyfriend is 15 and i dont want to have unprotected sex this is stoping us of having fun
2007-01-20 10:33:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
If your embarrassed to buy condoms then don't have sex. Just buy them. They see it all the time. No biggy. It is easier to buy those than a pregnancy test. Trust me. Just go to the gas station. They see lots of people. Good luck
2007-01-20 10:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When are you teenagers going to realize that having sex at your age is not a good idea?
You seem to be smart because you are at least thinking about protected sex and using a condom, but you really should not be having sex now.
You have plenty of time for that when you grow up, but for now just enjoy being a teenager without all of the problems that can come from teen sex (pregnancy, aids, broken hearts, etc.). You see condoms can break, and then you might have to deal with situations you just are not ready for.
Sex will still be around when you turn 21 so you will not miss out, and you will enjoy it much more when you are really ready for it and after you have experienced growing up and going to college, etc.
Please wait.
2007-01-20 18:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by Seldom Seen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll think embarrassing when you have to go to the doctor every month and be checked out down there when your pregnant.
I would re-think your whole ideal of having sex for fun.
What would be more embarrassing for you:
1) Buying condoms?
or
2)Getting naked all the time with your legs in stir ups being checked by a doctor?
I believe if i were that embarrassed to buy condoms then i wouldn't be having sex.
You should go to the health department and get put on birth control. Can't your boyfriend go into a bathroom and buy condoms himself?
2007-01-20 19:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you are mature enough.u feel too embarrassed to buy condoms but you are not embarrassed to strip in front of a 15 year old boy who only wants to get laid and then move to another girl.! don't think you are ready for this step..i can realise by reading your question that you are still a child at heart. first time should be something teriffic, with someone you love, not an experience you'd rather forget about. why doesn't he buy condoms to show his respect for you? i'm 17 and i have a wonderful relationship.i started my love life at 17 and i don't wish i had started it earlier. be picky about the guy you do it with - you owe that to your moral and physical integrity
2007-01-20 18:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by katz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u r too embarrassed to buy condoms then u r not mature enough to have sex....maybe u should wait for love and not do it just for fun
2007-01-20 18:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by eyesopen16 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a person that had a baby at 15 The sex is not worth it and condoms are not 100% please wait.
2007-01-20 18:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by bincoris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one you put this on the trying to conceive site... not the site you want.. two if you want to have sex... buy the condoms.. who cares how embarrassing it is.. obviously if you want to have sex someone is going to have to buy them. I would rather be safe than sorry... they also have free condoms at the hospital and at little clinics.. either way their is always someone who is going to see you and are going to be wondering why a youngin is out having sex.....
2007-01-20 18:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by sleepyincarolina 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not having sex is stopping you from having fun? Live up your life girl before worrying about sex. You have LOTS of time when you are older to worry about it!
2007-01-20 19:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by zoe and skylar's mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE don't have sex right now! You're only 14 years old... wait until you're older and know more about life. Trust me, its not what everyone makes it out to be... it can be the BIGGEST mistake of your life. I lost my virginity when I was 15, and I regret it to this day! DON'T DO IT
2007-01-20 18:42:37 · answer #9 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you want to be mature enough to have sex then be mature enough to buy the protection. WHO CARES IF IT IS EMBARRASSING!! It's what every mature person does to protect themselves! Not ready to buy condoms? Then you're not ready to have sex!
2007-01-20 18:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Isabel*~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋