I Fancy a girl at my school and I dont know if shes fancys me but i dont have the guts i need to ask her out. I think its because im worried shell say no wat should i do. I need plenty of help and I need it quickas she maybe moving school, i can never ask her as she is with friends and ill be to embarressed to ask in front of evry one. I dont know what to do HEEEEEEEELP!
2007-01-20 10:27:42 · 21 answers · asked by djkebbs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2007-01-20 10:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seems like you're afraid of rejection. Sit back, relax and think of all the reasons why you like this girl. Take a closer look at her behavior. Girls aren't that hard to understand, really: if you pay close enough attention, you know if one likes you or not. Just watch the way she acts around you. Listen to the things she'll say to you. And if you really care about her enough, nothing will stop you from telling her what you need to say. No, you won't announce it over the PA. Naturally, you'll want to take her to the side and see how she feels about you. Remember: "no" isn't the end of the world. Better to be with someone who wants and likes you for you, and not just some girl. :-)
2007-01-20 10:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by Honesty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that! Start with saying hello when you are around her in school etc. If she says hello back then that is a start. Do that a couple times and then maybe go up to the group and ask if anyone got the answer to the question in class (you think you copied it down wrong, you wrote 5 and 7 but skipped 6....be prepared to anwser why you aren't getting from one of the guys... sloppy writing or somthing that makes sense!) But look at her FIRST when you ask. Don't keep staring! Maybe one of those friends might find you interesting and if one suddenly wants to help remember her and remember to thank her.
Just remember in 10 years it won't matter if you make a fool of yourself unless you happen to be married to her!
One last bit of advise... only date the ones you want to marry.
Good Luck
2007-01-20 10:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by Pilgrim in the land of the lost 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really are serious and want to have a relationship with this girl, then just go for it. You don't need to worry if she fancys you or not. Even if you failed asking her out, there's nothing to be embarassed about because you're not the only one on earth that has failed asking a girl out. You're like facing a once in a lifetime opportunity now.She's leaving right? You better be fast!I'm sure you'll regret if you don't confess to her.!
2007-01-20 10:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by Stefan Kho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a girl, i can give you good advice. You have to make your move. Be prepared for a possible no, though. If you get rejected, that means your only human. If your too embarassed to ask her out in front of everyone, then dont ask her out in front of everyone. When theres not many people, just go up to her and ask. Dont sound desperate. If she's moving schools, you have to make your move, like, now. Then if she moves, youll definately stay in touch. Ask friends for advice, too. If she says no, well, its fine. You'll know then if you guys were right for eachother. And if you guys weren't, then, move on. Make your move, she probably likes you and if you dont make your move soon, she'll start to like another guy. When you ask her, DONT GIVE HER ANYTHING!!! A guy once asked me out and handed me a box of chocolates. I dint even like him, but since he brought the chocolates, i was guilted into going out with him. Girls hate that. WHen you go out, bring her something nice, and make a good first impression on her parents. Everything will work out perfectly if you do. Good luck!
2007-01-20 10:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are basically just to be looked at. As soon as you get involved with one you might as well throw away all the things you enjoy doing and exist just to please her.
Why dont you find yourself a nice hobby or perhaps take up some extra lessons at school, spelling or grammar wouldn't go to waste would it?
Trust me, you're life will take a turn for the worse if you involve yourself in the ways of the woman.
2007-01-20 11:02:02 · answer #6 · answered by Missing Link 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get one of your friends to give her the note. We always scare ourselves- making it seem like it's more than it is. The worst thing she can say is no. Smile at her one day. Say hi to her in the hallway. It might boost your confidence and make you feel better about asking her out.
2007-01-20 11:27:32 · answer #7 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go to her and forget about her friends.When i have fear in me to ask a girl out i go to her and ask and just have this thought in my mind that at list she canty kill me. if she says no thats the way it is. just do it. because if you dont do it now you might never be able to do it to anyone else.theres something in you that is telling you to meet this girl.when an hungry man wants food he doesnt care who is watching and he goes for the food.go and thirst and hunger for her and you will get good results and discover yourself.
2007-01-20 10:45:52 · answer #8 · answered by soglow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright, this is an easy fix man.
you have two choices, one, you do ask her, and she either says yes or no. at best, she says yes, and you find out a few months later that you only like how she looks. at worst, she says no, and you say, "aight, your loss" and walk away with your dignity and WALLET intact.
choice two, you DONT ask her out, and you spend your time sitting at home, alone, lookin at porn on your comp. thinking about "what could have been."
so, choose wisely.
2007-01-20 10:33:18 · answer #9 · answered by sobrien 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to find a time when she is alone. Then, all you do is ask. I mean how bad could it get. If she says no, then just get over it and move on.
2007-01-20 10:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋