Recently, moved out of a home of 12 years with a man I thought was my soulmate. Ah yeah right, he had another. Oucheeewaawaa! I thought I was a stong self-empowered woman on the right track but I have derailed. I have never lived alone and it's shock therapy for me. I know that thru every tunnel you see the light, but I can't foresee one. Those of you who share my common thread to this meaning we call live. Please respond accordingly.
2007-01-20 10:26:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
the possibilities of something fabulous about to happen.not fear...but excitement of things to come.belief in your self,u weren't born empowered and resolute(none of us are) so you've already earnd your stripes!why stop now! i know its hard, but wouldnt you rather have been thru tough times enabling you the coping skills for life.Hurdles will keep appearing, its the ease and efficiency of getting over them that counts.all pain is temporary.the blessings we have are permenant..use them hun.Its only a man!?.and we've all been there!felt like our heart had been ripped out..Then looked back and said huh! what a loser, he was(cliche..but true)i think thats what makes them cliches...they're universally TRUE.
2007-01-20 10:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there. But I'll tell you, life goes on and time surely does heal all woes. This is more than just a notion. You can and will get over him, but it does take time. You know that saying, "That which does not kill me, makes me stronger?" Well, it's true. One day, you'll look back on all of this and shake your head. Spiritually you will be in a place where even if he came back to you crawling on his knees, you wouldn't take him back. While I know it's not the answer you want, time will mend your broken heart. You can't see it now, but you will. Best wishes to you. And remember, you do not need him to validate you. You are somebody with or without a so-called soulmate. Good luck, Girl.
2007-01-20 20:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by JOURNEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the under the bus crowd. Light at the end of the tunnel is when you stop looking back at the place where the entrance was and start looking forward to where the exit is. I know how hard that is. Love is not a game. You will always have the scars and will always be bewildered. In time all crawl out from under the bus. I'm still there after 20 years and still love the lady but... haven't been with her in years and... all I have to say is... ouch. Put God back in that place inside you where you worshiped your husband and you will understand better.
2007-01-20 18:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by JORGE N 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never love anyone more than yourself. I too, have been kicked under a moving bus(LOL). My biggest problem is God. Doing what is said is his/her way. If it wasn't for that I would walk down and f--k them all. Smile- you are worth it. Once you know your man has lied to you, he too knows that he has lied, he will not stop there. Be the bigger woman and walk away. You see men have alot of ***** in them, treat them the same. Even if it hurts!!!! Someone has to teach them, being that their mother didn't. If you don't they will end up in jail being taught by there true soulmate (a man.) Take care! LadyBug
2007-01-20 18:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by rolanda m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger . Don't give him the power to control one more moment of your life ; or to occupy your thoughts . All the crying in the world over spilt milk doesn't change the fact that it's still spilt milk . Success is the best revenge . Want positive things for yourself from now on - and go get them !
2007-01-20 21:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by missmayzie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a richer better looking man and show your old soulmate to make him jealous and do everything in his power to get you back.
2007-01-20 18:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by Durr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋