I've been watching quite a bit of porn ever since my last girlfriend. recently i hooked up with a girl and things are going right when we make out and everything but once my clothes come off and i'm doin it with a condom i lose my erection.
is this because i masturbate?
watch porn?
am nervous and anxious?
no energy?
am 26?
2007-01-20 10:10:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I only drink on weekends.
I also forgot to mention that Im attracted to my g/f's body but not her face.
2007-01-20 10:18:56 · update #1
There is a physical answer, and a mental answer to this.
Physical - if you've got a firm erection in the morning when you wake up, or during the nite, chances are good that nothing is wrong with your body. Otherwise, a good urologist will be able to help you. Don't worry, all men start going to urologists eventually, some just sooner than others.
Mental -- ya know, the biggest sex organ is the brain. If you've got unresolved emotions, or part of you says that having sex w/ a person you don't love (don't even find attractive?) is wrong, then that would cause problems. The "nervous and anxious" part of your post suggests that this might be your case. Until you resolve those issues, it will probably play havoc with your sex life.
2007-01-20 10:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by geek49203 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 17:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose Erection Easily
2017-01-19 09:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be all of the things that you listed above. Couple questions for you.
Do you drink a lot of alcohol? If so this will normally dictate how long you have an erection.
Have you watched so much porn that "normal" sex just doesn't have the mental stimulation. For example when engaging in sex are you fantasizing about a different sexual act just to stay erect?
2007-01-20 10:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by EATTHEAPPLE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well....you're still young,it can be health problems or might just have to do it with the lights off,you know what I'm saying? Masturbating is not definitely the problem so get that out of your system.
2007-01-20 12:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by genie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a loaded question. The reason could be among what you listed. If unsure, I suggest to see a doctor who can examine your prostate, check your blood pressure and can tell if you have anxiety or depression.
2007-01-20 10:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by Yafooey! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is something called a c*ck ring fill in the blank.
it enables you to prolong erections by restricting blood flow out of your penis. you will get the hang of it.
also research tantric sex. it as some useful techniques
2007-01-20 10:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by steven m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all of the above! Keep your hands off of yourself and stop watching porn
2007-01-20 10:14:25 · answer #8 · answered by traci s 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
All of the above.
2007-01-20 12:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by BLESSED 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋