I've been in mine for 14 yrs but planning to move out, probably breaking up.
First of all.... You should know that in the 1st 4-5 yrs we were insanely crazy for each other, best friends, having sex 2-4x a day, and had alot in common.
Nowadays... he has repaced me with porn, we have sex every 2-4 months, we argue alot, not much in common, he NEVER listens, pothead, drinks alot, overweight, workaholic, etc....
HERE'S THE PAINFUL PART... we still really love each other but just butt heads too much to get thru a conversation or sex. And the attraction? What attraction/chemistry.
And lately I cannot keep my eyes off other men. His porn "thing" drives me to wanna be bad. And not having sex anymore....well... starvations making me hungry, making me get some dangerous thoughts in my head, espescially around a handsome devil.
2007-01-20 09:59:07 · 13 answers · asked by mia b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have been married 9 years but together 12 only 2 sexual partners and it does get boring sometimes. We do have good sex sometimes though. We usually do 1 or 2 times a week but we have a great marriage and a strong friendship that I believe will help us make it until the end of our lives. You are only human for feeling the way you do about hot men your not dead but it sounds like maybe it is time for you to move on. Sometimes I get flirty but that is just my personality and when I realize it i always try to think now how would I feel if he were acting this way but I am totally true! I have thought of doing wrong things before but I have always got back on the right track but it seems you have a LOSER on your hands! Good Luck have fun Be Safe
2007-01-20 11:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by kd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You owe it to your father to tell the truth.Being accused of molesting your child has to be one of the worse things a parent would ever have to face.The fact that your mother forced you to say this so she had an out is so sad. Be prepared though I am sure people are going to see your mother as a total nut job for doing this to you.Be prepared that your dad may not want your apology either.Depending on the state in his life he is at it may not matter you are sorry. Good Luck
2016-05-24 02:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say just leave, but it's 14 years... you want to throw that away? You had a good 5 years before and most marriage didn't even last that long. Maybe should try couple counseling if he agrees. If nothing works, I'm sorry.
2007-01-20 10:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally feel you on this..My man and I never have sex...ever. We dont ever kiss anymore...he is alot older than me (im 22) but we have been together for 5 years and there is just nothing left except love. We just have a friendship its weird and I share your horny feelings to girl lol. For some reason I just cant leave and I dont know why...
2007-01-20 10:06:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my husband for 13 years and am going through alot of the same things.
2007-01-20 10:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by Jt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do it,
try to do it in another town.
Men (bless their tiny little egos)
cannot stand to be used for sex if they decide they like it too.
I think that once you find a sexual outlet, you will fight less with your husband once you get home.
Stay married, the porn and your desire for others will pass
just be descrete and use protection.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-20 10:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Going on 40 years and we had great sex last night and again this morning! Can't wait till I get home tonight!
2007-01-20 10:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
truthfully none, nada, zilch on the sexual excitement. I'd be glad if the husband was looking at porn, I'd know he was still alive.
2007-01-20 10:14:46 · answer #8 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Porn ruins relationships.
You should not be watching porn together or seperate.. it doesnt help anything only makes it worse.
Why dont you try couples therapy...
2007-01-20 10:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by yo mama 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Either leave or don't leave but the idea of "punishing" him by cheating is a pretty lowlife thing to do.
2007-01-20 10:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by days_o_work 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋