i'm 16/girl, and somtimes when i'd talkto particular friends, i'd find nothing to say, gets very awkard. what's my problem!!?? i mean, we have a lot in common, but i'd always think "there's nothing to talk about", and so like we hardly talk when going out or anything.
solution? anyone...?
2007-01-20 09:55:26 · 2 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe you can start a book club with them
or you can do 'non chatter' activities such as roller skating or going to a movie or play...
you could even do some volunteer work
(habitat for humanity etc)
If you get in a bind, read the newspaper and talk about current events/or watch a few televison gossip shows talk about fashions in clothing and movie stars.
If none of those work, just ask the friend to talk about herself. Bet she could go on for hours doing that....
GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-20 10:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friends are talking about stupid stuff and you're just not into it. Try talking to new people who you find interesting.
2007-01-20 10:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by selljpk4fun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋