I would be really interested to hear why you needed help, who was there for you when you most needed help, and what help they gave you? Thank you very much for sharing your story.
2007-01-20 09:26:24 · 4 answers · asked by Boz 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Personally, the only thing that has really helped me through the tough times has been my heart and soul.
When all but one of my friends hated me, the one who didn't went over and talked to the rest of them while I sat alone on the verge of tears.
Whenever I try talking to my parents about anything they always just try to be all moral and tell me how I shouldn't have gotten into the situation and that I should figure it out myself and that'll teach me what the real world is like i.e cold, mean, friendless (or so they say).
I've found pets are good listeners but don't really provide a shoulder to cry on or any advice or anyone to say everything will turn out okay.
Don't have siblings
Other family lives far away
No boyfriend
I haven't been through too much but I've found that the best advice giver/comforter/person to rely on in a time of crisis is myself. When I lost the person I love, I cried it all out and let my heart do the rest. I didn't tell anyone and no one knows to this day. I knew all my friends would make fun of me and my parents wouldn't do anything useful.
This morning when my guinea pig died, the only word of comfort I got was "sorry" from my dad. My friends well, they don't even care.
Maybe people think I am made of steel and nothing can hurt me, or I have no feelings or I'm strong enough to deal with it myself. Or they just don't care. Whatever their reason is I've learned to rely on myself in times of trouble and I've found that a constant voice of optimism (even if it's only inside my head) is the best cure for anything.
2007-01-20 11:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband. He is always there for me.
Other than him, NO ONE is ever there. I have even called for help on something in the past to someone who owed me a favor and I received no help. Friends call and ask me to do things over and over but I call and NO ONE can assist me. It gets rather old and I am now turning down alot of people who ask now.
My husband is the only person who has never let me down... He is a saint and I will spend my life treating him as such.
2007-01-20 17:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and books
2007-01-21 09:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by jamie F. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
myself.
2007-01-24 17:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by garii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋