Dreaming about my boyfriend???

Question

Why is it i think of my boyfriend in the night but never have a dream that has him in it???

Please help, i want him in them!!!!!!!

Answer 1

You can't make someone appear in your dreams. You can try to remember your dreams by keeping a dream diary; and when you go to bed at night you can say in your mind "I want to remember my dreams tonight"
Go with your dreams. You may have a very healthy relationship with your boyfriend, and be very relaxed with him, in which case there won't be any fears or worries about him lurking in your subconcious.
Enjoy having him in your life. The dreams amy come. They may not.
I never dream about my partner either. But I am very comfortable with our life together.
Think about it.

Answer 2

You cant control dreams.
There a random assortment of information your brain has stored away over a period of a few days that it needs to dump.
If you actually sit the next morning after having a dream, everything in can be connected somehow to minor experiences you have recently had, no matter how small.
One theory that goes around is that if you think about a subject before going over to sleep you will dream about it. That's not true i'm afraid.
Like i say, you cant control the dumping of information you brain does during the night.

Answer 3

To understand a dream, it’s helpful to keep in mind why and how we dream. When we sleep, the body and perception systems are shut down, but the brain remains active. The brain thinks about what has recently been most active during waking hours—experiences, thoughts and feelings accessed recently whether consciously or not. The brain is still active, so it works on this content, but not in a familiar, rational way. During sleep, this material is not related using input from the external real world, but rather by the brain connections already established in the cortex. So the story connectedness isn’t like everyday experience, but rather a strange, circuitous flow from one image to the next. So dreams aren’t magical messages to guide our life, but dream imagery is taken from everyday experiences, thoughts and feelings that matter most to us during our waking life. So it’s a mistake to apply standard symbol definitions, such as Freudian meanings. All you need to do is think about what kind of imagery it is and how it relates to your daily life.

Wanting badly to dream about something isn't enough to make you dream about it. Very likely you and your boyfriend have a great relationship with few issues. So there are no emotional issues bothering you all day, so that your mind continues to deal with it in dreams.

I was happily married to my spouse for 21 years and this person was never once in one of my dreams.

Answer 4

When we dream our brains are trying to figure out what is going to happen next in our life. But what happens when you dream has nothing to do with what your dreams actually mean, I hope you understand. This is very complicated but it does make sense. The key to understanding dreams is all in the details. If you want to understand your dreams you should write down as many details as possible as soon as you wake up, colors, where things were, names of people, what you were doing, what you were wearing, animals, all the details. Then you should be able to piece together what your dream was really about....if not then you may not have remembered enough details or you maybe you just couldn't figure out your dream. But all of the answers are in your sub-conscious mind, we just don't always acknowledge them.

Answer 5

I'm just like you...but just because you think of something before you go to sleep doesn't mean your dream will be about that thing you thought of. LOL, I would love to have a dream with the boy I'm in love with. Instead I have dreams with the ugly boys at school

*sigh*

Answer 6

Very often, when you think of someone or something before you sleep, you will not dream of them. You basically are suppressing your thoughts and your subconscious mind will not show it in the dream.

However, if you do it the day time, that may plays back in your dream. that is the way most subconscious minds work

Answer 7

seems to me that most dreams are about what you are NOT thinking of. Like after a break up, you may not dream of the ex until you are finally starting to forget him/her, then you start dreaming about them.

Answer 8

smooth yet no longer overly smooth. maximum romantic component a guy has executed for me....hmm that's an appealing question. there are various solutions to that query. women like it at the same time as a guy smells strong. turn offs properly for me if the guy makes various stupid farting jokes or some thing like that. that's in user-friendly words really stressful. women like at the same time as a guy can make her snigger.

Answer 9

I have a girl in my dreams, but i don't have her in real life, which is better?

Answer 10

Dont think of that too much....It will come by itself when you stop being occupied by it...And why is that so important,isn't it better to have him in your life than in your dreams?