okay, so my boyfriends best friend, is constantly with different girls, and this time, the girls were flirting with my boyfriend. i knew that she was a slut, and i had my friend go up to her at school. she claims she and none of her friends did anything, but i know its not true. what should i do if i see this girl.. ?
hit her?
cause that's EXACTLY what i wanna do...
2007-01-20 08:54:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It really depends on how your boyfriend responds to them as to what you should do. You may, depending on his response, end up dumping him and moving on. A girl can flirt, but if she does not get a reaction, she would stop. Do you see where I am going with this?
2007-01-20 08:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stomp that biatches azz!!
Seriously though, confront your boyfriend about it once, tell him it makes you jealous when he flirts with them (if he's flirting back) and tell him once and only once. The next time he does it, dump the sorry excuse for a boyfriend and find someone worth your time. Those girls are doing it on purpose just to make you mad and if your guy cared enough about you he wouldn't flirt with them in front of you. Forget about those girls though, you sound very middle-high-schooly with the dramatic explaination and whatnot. Handle it in a mature manner and grow up much faster then those girls you're talking about and you'll land yourself a great man honey.
2007-01-20 08:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing. If you come over all possessive and controlling then you'll lose him. He wants you, its not his fault these girls are all over him, at the end of the day, he hasn't done anything wrong, ignore these girls, don't let them get to you, they're jealous cos you have the guy they want, they'll say exactly what they know'll get you all worked up, just concentrate on you and your boyfriend, be the girlfriend he fell for and show him you trust him. If you don't then you'll just drive him away
2007-01-20 09:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg!!!i hate those kind of girls.tell your boyfriend that annoys you alot because you care about him.he will understand and tell the girls too stop it.if the girls don't stop it start hanging out with your boyfriend alot!!!!they can't do anything about it then.if the girls still don't stop then you have to do something about it.look at the girls eyes and tell them that it really annoys you that they flirt with your boyfriend and then tell them to flirt with some other girl's boyfriend.tell those ugly *** girls too get their own boyfriend!!!they won't bother you ever again.if they do stand up to them and kick those b*****s sorry a*s!!!!!they definitely wont bother you again!!!for sure!!!
2007-01-20 09:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls do that all the time...if your bf is cute then its hard 4 girls not 2 flirt with him...what's really important is how he reacts to those girls and if he shows respect 4 u when they are around
2007-01-20 09:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by BunnyRabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never understood women thinking they can control what a guy does.
It's your boyfriends job to let other women know he's not interested.
What you want to do is act like a "guard-dog"....that shouldn't be your job and it shouldn't be necessary.
2007-01-20 08:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the more mature one and leave it alone.....Talk to your bf.....if he really loves he should not be allowing other girls to be flirting with in any way that would make u uncomfortable.....If you talk to him and this continues......It means your bf does not respect you and you should end the relationship.
2007-01-20 08:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say trust your boyfriend. IF you dont trust him...then you shouldn't be with him. The girl isn't anything to worry about...he's the only one that can let anything happen.
2007-01-20 08:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by JoAnn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it can be so annoying, but you shouldn´t hit her. Try not paying attention to them, you shouldn´t worry as long as your boyfriend doesn´t pay attention to them either.
2007-01-20 09:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of them
2007-01-20 08:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋