about what other people think about you? And i mean by what you wear,how you talk, will they call you a poser or somehting?
2007-01-20 08:47:18 · 10 answers · asked by ~~~~~~******* 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
No, you shouldn`t, what matters is what YOU think about YOURSELF.
If people think you`re weird, don`t listen to them. Everyone thinks that I`m a freak for liking Narnia so much, and do I care? No. So what if I become class doofus? I still won`t care. If someone thinks you`re weird because you dress differently from the "in" crowd, then you`re unique and won`t become a follower of the crowd, which is a bad place to end up in. So, yeah, you shouldn`t care.
2007-01-20 09:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by lucy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't care, I think you should care about yourself and not pay attention to what other people think. I think that a person should carry themself up high and always look their best, you dont have to be in to the latest tend to look good. Being yourself and dressing the way that makes you feel good is not being a poser.
2007-01-20 08:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't care about anything somebody has to say no matter what it is. People have a right to their own opinions, but that doesn't mean you have to listen to them. I don't care what people think of me, and I don't care what they say either. As long as I'm respecting other people, and their giving me the same respect back then that's all that matters in the end. Other than that I don't bother myself with this. In the end you have to live for you, not other people. Always remember that whether your good or bad people will always find something to say so it doesn't matter either way.
2007-01-20 09:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't, but it's one thing that some people just can't avoid thinking about it. Personally, I try not to think about. But, since I don't liked to be talked about, I generally don't do any thing that would draw uneccessary attention to my self.
About being a "poser", that comment is aimed at people who try to be something they're not and care so much about how they act/dress that they feel compelled to change it.
Basically, just don't care. It's really not worth it so be yourself!
2007-01-20 09:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should care what other people think about you. it is not what othr people think about you it is what you think about yourself and if you feel comfortable with what you are wearing it really doesn't matter as long as you are happy. like i am african american and my cousins call me white all the time because of the way I look, do my hair, and talk but I have learned not to let them get the better of me. I hope that I have helped you in any way.
2007-01-20 09:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by Mandii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never care about what other people care. If you do, you'll just start losing yourself. Your personality, uniqueness, everything! You have to stay true to yourself and worry about yourself cuz there's a lot more serious things to worry about than what other people think of you.
2007-01-20 10:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't, but people do. I dont care... for the most part. I had acne all through middle school, everyone [including the populars] were my friends. Everyone hung out with me and i didnt care about my acne. I do change my clothes do go with the 'style' but yeah you shouldnt care. No one should ever care
2007-01-20 08:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by cali girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmm
okay everyone here is gona tell u nawt to care and u still won't listen to them.... i know this b-cause o one really never cares..... they may just say that 2 make u feel betta about yr self but deep inside every1 cares .... at lest a little bit... sooo i am gonna telll u the truth ......
yes u should care but nawt tooo much cause can really hurt yr self if u care tooo much.....u should nawt change yr self too much for others but at least try a lettle bit 2 fit in...... let say u have ah lot of acne... even though u don't wanna care u know that u still do... don't change yr hairstlye or anything 2 dramatic.... just try and clean yr pores, use some cream, and proactive to try and clear it....
too tell u the truth i have always cared wat ppl say bout me... pathetic some may call me but i personally feel better when someone compliments me or tells me that i look like a movie star..... exspecially when someone eyes my clothing and is u know that they r thinking that they want it!!!!
wat gurl doen't like to b fawned over??!?!?!?
antway it also encourages u 2 b better and to try more....
u know wat they say... u can take the girl outta the country but u can't take teh country outta the girl.......
with that being said, i think tht u should @ least try and fit in... sooo wat if u don't make it to teh top ?!?!?!?! at least u know u tried ......
stay gorgeous( and for u .. stay confident and never let them see u cry!!!!!),
Lollie
2007-01-20 08:51:44 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Lollie ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're going somewhere where nobody you'll ever see again is, then you shouldn't really care. But to places where everybody knows you, then dress to impress. But impress them with yourself. 'Cause if they don't like how you dress or how you talk, then they can just go skrew themselves. Just go in whatever you feel most comfortable.
2007-01-20 08:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you really should. It encourages you to dress fab, and be cool. I mean, feel the pressure to show other girls how to dress and act, so I have 4 closets and sit at the best seat in the cafeteria.
2007-01-20 08:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by peace ♥ music 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋