trys to talk to me and have sex with me. First, I didnt know that he had a g/f till later on in the realationship. We dated off and on for about a year or two, I got pregnate by him and lost the baby. Someone was watching over me. We got caught by his g/f so we stopped talking for awhile. Now, I have found out through some mutal friends that he got married to this girl that caught us. Now, he is emailing me and calling me and comes up to my work so he can see me and wants me to meet him at his place to have sex. Granted, the sex was great but, I dont know why he married her if he keeps telling me that he wants to be with me. What should I do? I have tried to give him every clue that we cant do this but, he still wants to continue some kind of realations. Please help.
2007-01-20 08:43:31 · 11 answers · asked by Southern Country Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay, I get where you all are going but, he is NOT getting that I dont want to see him and have sex with him anymore.I really dont want to go to the police but if I have to I could. Plus, I really dont want to tell his wife that he is trying to see me again. Plus, she wont believe me anyway cause she is stupid and naive. I do have heart but, to me he was a good f*ck and that was it, but I dont want him to be left out on the streets. Has there ever been a guy or a girl that just doesnt get what you are saying to them? What have you done to make it clear?
2007-01-20 09:11:06 · update #1
i went through the same thing but he didnt marry her they broke up later on. ok he just wants you to f**k and because he thinks you'll give him some more cuz he thinks he has u and he can do whatever he wants with you and that youll still talk to him even he was married if he is. but i went throughh the same and i guess we dont know if he likes or the guy i like likes cuz guys are such players .write back ok
2007-01-22 03:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by mickey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a mans world yeah right Guys find hot vixens like you that attract him in ways his mistress can not do everyone moves but your walk you did your talk you do you have a style the way you have sex and that is an attraction and your his temptation his quick fix when she's not around Guys who are muslim are allowed to have 10 wives in canada we all think of stds and in life you take risks but if his married he may lift you 10 feet on a high orgasm but meet with his wife and be her friend friends shouldn't allow harm there yout soldier in battle they give you chocalte you maybe then you 2 confront him and he will ither find someone else to **** because with beauty now anything could happen I know the guy who wants me when I get mad at him he used to **** his exs I gave him a choice that i am not a toy for your sexual needs your relationship if open go to a sex spa and feed your addiction for I have me and what your doing is making me vunerable and I am a strong women so don't break me ither love me or please leave me alone or you will heard from the authority and you can rot in jail I hear you would love it there doing time give him the option change your lock and take control only you know how and have the ability to make him suffer for hurting you
2007-01-20 09:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by acomvixen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget clues. Tell him straight up that you will not cheat on his wife with him. You may even want to take steps to prevent him from being able to contact you if he gets really insistent (such as a restraining order). I wouldn't suggest telling his wife, although she is probably aware that he's a lying dog. Which is sad... he sounds like a sad sad little man.
2007-01-20 08:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by Meagan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, obviously if this guy cheated on his gf, he wouldn't have a problem cheating on his wife. I don't think you want to be the "other" girl, so maybe you should give him the ultimatum, tell him if he really wants to be with you, he'll get a divorce...otherwise, he needs to understand that a guy and a girl can be friends without being physical...
2007-01-20 08:48:55 · answer #4 · answered by Duh-Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might want to deffinatly ditch her cuz if she needs extra bf's shes both already cheated on u ... or is goin to . women like that ... stay remote from em.. relaxing for a lengthy time period ... difficulty contained in the destiny . u will be atracted to her yet ur gonna get damage extra if u stick round and enable her play round.
2016-12-02 19:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by gagliano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that harassment is illegal and maybe he'll get the point.Quit giving clues,TELL him to leave you alone or else you;ll file harassment charges
2007-01-20 09:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by alex_aaliyahs_mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
holy ****. are u kidding me? hes married now and he is asking u for sex? u dont even need to go to yahoo for this!! tell him no and to go to hell. who cares if the sex is great? HE IS JUST USING U! god...
2007-01-20 08:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by ▐▀▀▼▀▀▌ ► Pogo ◄ ▐▄▄▲▄▄▌ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dont worry about him I'm sure he has plenty of other fall back GF's to take care of him... Just like you were...
2007-01-20 08:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is a dumbazz and a loser...if this girl caught u together and still married him, she deserves everything she gets...dump him, unless u want it happening to u too.
2007-01-20 08:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost! You are not going to play second fiddle to anyone. What a jerk.
2007-01-20 08:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by kcarp73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋