2007-01-20 08:40:01 · 49 answers · asked by stargazer 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You have a lot of amazing answers. I think I'm answering now just as sort of a therapy for me to talk about this.
I adore my dad. I seriously do. He has always been an amazing man. So talented...... so wise..... so funny....so dear. But he is the most NON confrontational man you'll ever met. Don't get me wrong. I'm not up for creating a conflict with him. What I mean is...... he is so quiet..... rarely speaks. He's shy. Once my mother passed away...... he closed off from me. I live in one city, he and my sister live in another. He is so close to her and does things with her and her kids all of the time. But he only calls me.... maybe once every six months. I beg him to come visit me. He won't. I go to knoxville to visit him........ he wants to stay home, but says he's happy for me to come over if I want. I ask him over and over if there is something wrong. If I did anything. He shakes his head and gets a funny look and says, "Of course not, silly." But if you watched him with my sister, you'd wonder as I do.
I keep telling him how isolated I feel from my "family" since I'm in another city. That I need him more than ever. And yet...... he pulls further and further. I didn't get to see him Thanksgiving or Christmas. Therefore, it's been well over a year since I've seen him. *sigh* If something happened to him tomorrow and I hadn't seen him, I would just crumble!!!!!
I love him dearly..... but it hurts to no end that he doesn't seem to want or NEED to see me and his two granddaughters. A daughter needs to be needed. And he needs to know...... just how necessary he is to me. *sigh*
2007-01-20 09:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by Marianne not Ginger™ 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
My #2 son. Bad problem with using and sellings drugs as a teenager. Got his shet together, owns his own home now, I have a loving daughter-in-law and two grand daughters. I did it with what the liberals will never ever understand-"TOUGH LOVE". I kicked him out of the house when we lived in LA.
2007-01-20 08:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say my lover of nearly twenty years. He hurt me the most because he betrayed our love even though he had access to my most private self. He had been through things with me as no one else, and he knew things about me that no one else did. That really hurt!
2007-01-20 08:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by worldwise1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my uncle.he's not the most sensitive kinda guy,and doesnt think b4 he speaks,and believe me,he can be very "simon cowell>"it's painful.however,he has volunteered at a hospital faithfully for 15 years,and would do anything to help a person who needed help.he means well,even if he is blunt and has no "people sense." i once didnt speak to him for a year,but as we live in different states,he never noticed!he just came to visit at xmas,and he never realised how mad at him i formerly was!!!!! he's elderly,i no longer wish to harbor a grudge-just have to accept him as he is!
2007-01-20 08:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by kyra k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My love...well that's the way it is because the one you love the most has the power to hurt you the most...
2007-01-20 08:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by woman in the well 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say my mother first, and my older sister second. But I still love them very much, even though they make me angry most of the time.
2007-01-20 08:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband whom Im seperated from. He hurt me and hurt me, both physically and mentally. Yet and still, I will always love him. And my mom too.
2007-01-20 08:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by lucygoosy2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, my mother. I wish it wasn't true. I now have 3 children and I am trying so hard not to make the same mistakes. I never want my children to say that about me.
2007-01-20 08:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by Kimber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my father who allowed his girlfriend to kick me out in the 6th grade and left me with my bags on my grandmothers porch now im twenty three years old and he's 49 dont have a job and puts me down and i still love him because he is my dad
2007-01-20 08:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An unamed family member
2007-01-20 08:42:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋