I have been in long distance relationship form 1 year and 7 months. He is from UK, I am form Poland. We use to see each other around 4 times a year. Last summer we had a chance to spent together in USA, because we were working there in the same place. My boyfriend wants to come back to USA again(it his seventh time there) to work in the summer. I can not come back, because it is my graduate year. I am affraid he is going to come back there every single summer. We were talking about living together, but i am affraid it was just talking. What can I do?
2007-01-20 08:38:29 · 2 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you need to decide if you really are in true love or something else. To find out, read in the Bible, I Corinthians 13 "The Love Chapter" where it says love is patient and kind and seeks not its own way at the expense of others. Love isn't boastful or proud and always believes in the positive. This love is such that it will gladly give its life to save the life of another. It says of faith, hope and love that love is the greatest. If love dies, it wasn't love in the first place, but something else like lust. Lust will always fail you. This kind of love has kept my wife and I married for over 28 years.
If you both have this kind of love, then know that you will be able to wait for each other until conditions are right for you to be married. It isn't right in Jesus' eyes for people of the opposite sex to live together unless they are married. If you have this kind of love, you will be able to have things work out in their own time.
If you don't have this kind of love, it isn't probably going to be developed in a long distance relationship. You should drop this guy and find someone closer to you whom you will be able to develop true love. True love takes time, commitment, and nearness to be developed. Hope you find it.
2007-01-20 09:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,an interesting love:)My advice is that you must talk with you boyfriend,and to try to discover the truth about living together,I think this is the right thing,you must know if it is true or just words
2007-01-20 16:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by sweetest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋