Have you ever found yourself in this situation?At the moment I think,I am in it:( I have everything that a 18 year old girl should have, but I just don't feel like that,I am empty,I need something and I don't what....
2007-01-20 08:31:51 · 5 answers · asked by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
My dear I am so sorry to hear that you feel that emptyness inside, but you are wise beyond you're years to feel it and know it. For some young people your physical age there is a spiritual awakening, for some this awakening is so powerful because of hormonal changes taking place in a woman's system because she is pregnant, - but is not aware of it, in fact she may not believe that she has done anything with her boyfriend which could possibly have lead to her being pregnant, believe it or not, several teens give birth every year - who had no Idea they we're pregnant!
The feelings you describe could be the first signs of clinical depression. I think a talk with your family physician is in order so that he can rule out any physical or mental ailments. (Just to be sure).
Has there been a change in your family structure lately? Have you're parents divorced? Have you're parents been divorced, and now one or the other is getting re-married?
Deaths in the family? Have you moved recently? Do both your parents work? Is it possible that you suspect that one or both of parents are having extra-martial affairs? If there are honestly no issues like that, what about your life?
Do you use illegal drugs? Marajuana? Meth? Extacsy? Cocaine, Heroin, - other? Do you huff paint or mess around with oxygen deprivation games?
Have you just broken up with a boyfriend or girlfriend? Have you had a sexual experience that has made you question you sexuality or sexual orientation?
If none of these thing seem to apply, then I think that there is one place that might give you comfort, one place that might fill that emptiness in you're being, a place where you will be welcomed in, loved and accepted. A place where you can be free to find yourself - a Church, a church with a good Youth Group Program - ask around, - they are out there still. If you are willing to take a chance on God - he's always there for you - and he will never let you down. No I'm not a Bible thumper, Haven't belonged to a church since I was confirmed, but I do believe in God, and I know that he can and does help those who ask for his help. So good luck dear, I wish you all the best, and hope that you leave a little room in your heart for angels to dance.
I'm pulling for you.
2007-01-20 09:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by jtrall25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's all how you think and how you see things. Some people might help you with your problems but really your the one that should work towards your life and your goals. I feel like that as well but I think that should should ask your self a few questions before you begin. Such as "If I was poor and did not have anything what would I do?" and "If I were rich what would I do?"
2007-01-20 16:37:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel empty and sad then you obviously don't have everything. You mioght have everything in the materialistic sense of the word but you need more love and happiness. Talk to your friends and family about it, i'm sure they'll help you out. Good luck, feel happier soon! : )
2007-01-20 16:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by tara! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Material things have no substance, so they can't make you feel fulfilled. Become Big Sister, go to church, join the choir, Spend more time with your family and work towards getting the things the elders in your family have!
Never measure your self worth by materials!
2007-01-20 16:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are lonely. Meet new people, make new friends, but dont dump the old....... spend more time with others.
2007-01-20 16:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋