i just had a miscarriage, and im really not up to doing nothing im on lots of meds and im tired. Im emotionally not right. I was just hired for a new job and was suppose to start right around the time of my miscarriage. Im not ready to start now, I wanna just stay to myself and not be around anyone. What should i tell the employer they didnt even know I was pregnant. Should I just quit or try to talk to them and what should I say to them I had the whole week off during the process of my miscarriage now its done and im now just starting to grieve. Some please help me out with this one.
2007-01-20 08:18:42 · 6 answers · asked by robin love 2 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
Well, one problem is this: Did you kow you were pregnant when you accepted the job? If so, that was very dishonest of you to accept the position without the employer knowing you were expecting. They might have a problem with that.
That being said, you should talk to the person who hired you. If it's a female, let her know that you are thrilled about the job and can't wait to start, but that you just suffered from a miscarriage and need some time before starting the position. Try to give her a set date that you'll come back - one week, 10 days, etc. Hopefully she'll understand.
If the person is a male, let him know you've had a medical emergency and won't be able to start until ____. Let him know you can submit paperwork from your Dr. if necessary. Again, stress how excited you are about the job opportunity.
In all, it's probably better that you get back to work within a couple of weeks. It'll help you keep perspective, and give you something to do other than sit around the house and think about what happened.
2007-01-20 08:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what kind of job it is and what kind of environment your employers foster, but you should tell your employer about it. Don't just quit, because there is nothing to be lost by asking for some grieving time.
2007-01-20 08:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them the truth, you had a miscarriage and get a note from your physican to give you some time off to recuperate both physically and emotionally.
2007-01-20 08:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by notaxpert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-07 21:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would explain your situation to your employer and try to take time off. I am sure if they are a normal human being they will understand. Good luck.
2007-01-23 05:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, most likely they will look for a new person to replace you, so you can either A) start looking for a new job, or B) just go back to work and keep youself busy.
2007-01-20 08:27:12 · answer #6 · answered by Em C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋