I have this guy that I like and care about soooooooo much. We where dating for a little bit. We had a fight and know he says he needs sometime. He was about to come back around me,but then I started to hang out at the bar he goes to so people starting telling him that I was stalking him so know he is gone back to not coming around and wants more time. Should I not go to the bar so he can have time to think with out seeing me so much? plus his last gf was a drunk and a druggie is it that he dosn't want a nother gf that drinks like her? He says he care about me,but a women that knows him say that I should not care about him because he doesn't. Is he saying that he cares because I am saying it or should I BELIEVE what the women said? She is like 63 and he is 29 so I don't think he wants to be with her. So what should do I and believe?
2007-01-20 08:16:15 · 6 answers · asked by eeyore_smiles_2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
YOU SHOULD STAY WAY, GIVE HIM THE SPACE HE SO VERY MUCH WANTS.
IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU HE WILL COME BACK TO YOU. AND YOUR RIGHT HE ONCE WENT THRU A G/F THAT WAS EVERYTHING THAT HE DISLIKE. GIVE HIM THE SPACE AND DONT GO TO THE BAR.
2007-01-20 08:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by ââ¢Â¥*~áƦ~NYSunrise~áƦ~*ââ¢Â¥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an idiot (no offense). It's a free country! So, he thinks you're a stalker for going to the same bar as him? By the way, his friends need to butt out of you two's relationship. A man that can't handle the situation himself (without his friends), is a loser. It makes him sound like someone that always needs a second opinion. Sometimes, second opinions are nice, but ALL THE TIME?
I'd call him and tell him that you are in NO way, stalking him. Tell him that you find it ridiculous that his friends would think that just because you're occasionally visiting the same bar as him. Tell him that he should look into the situation himself, before just believing everything his little friends are telling him. It makes him sound immature to always have to live by what his friends say about the sitauation. I'd break it off right there on the phone. I'd tell him that the relationship isn't going anywhere. Good luck.
2007-01-20 19:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't want another gf that drinks, then why the hell is he hanging out at a bar? I would say, don't waste your time, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-01-24 01:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by luciousgreeneyedlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if this guy has to "think" so hard about going back out with you, he can't be too in love with you in the first place! I think you need to move on in life, to another bar, and another man! He is making it pretty obvious-don't you think???? Don't you think you deserve better??
2007-01-20 16:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you should, um, not date.
2007-01-20 16:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u kept saying know instead of now......
2007-01-20 16:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by ▐▀▀▼▀▀▌ ► Pogo ◄ ▐▄▄▲▄▄▌ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋