stand up for your self. show her that you do not care about what she has to say to you. if she says something mean to you just to bring you down, it just means that she is insecure about herself. she needs to make other people feel bad about themselves so that she feels good like she is the only good one there. if she is physically bullying you you could either tell an adult that is someone you can trust or you can use self defence.
2007-01-20 08:16:40
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answered by Anonymous
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Confront her but prepare yourself for it first. Spend time writing down exactly what you want to say to her, visualise this happening and the outcome being her reduced to nothing, practise in front of the mirror, keep visualising a positive outcome. Choose your moment well, get her on her own, and when you have your moment, calmly but confidently tell her in no uncertain terms you will not stand for it anymore and that if she carries on, you will make it your life's work to make her life a living hell for the rest of her days. Tell her there you don't care one jot what she does or says to you, it means absolutely nothing to you (even if it's not true, tell her), that she is insignificant to you now but if she wants to keep on bullying, tell her to bring it on, do her worst, and whatever she says or does, just repeat with a big smile on your face 'Is that the best you can do? Is this your best? Is it?'. Good idea to go to self-defence classes - if only to give you the confidence that if the chips are down and she wants to have a go, you know you can take her down. I don't condone physical fighting, but this is life and sometimes you have to defend yourself, so better to be prepared. Visualise whooping her *** real good! When she sees there is nothing in the world she can say or do to hurt you, she will stop. Good luck!
2007-01-21 05:01:29
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answered by Just_wondering 3
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well, lets be real here.
if a girl is bullying you its probobly because she is too caught up in her own insecurities and makes herself feel better by bringing others down. she's weak and pathetic. and face it you don't want to tell a teacher or inform the school because if you do everyone will think you are a wimp, am i right? so be civil about it. ask her what her problem is and worst comes to worst, tell the school.
2007-01-20 20:20:05
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answered by LiveLaughLoveLearn 2
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Tell an . Unless she is physically bullying you then learn how to use self defense and tell an . The reason she is bullying you is because she is the coward and is insecure. Don't let her get to you, you are a too smart for her.
2007-01-20 16:32:12
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answered by dogtreats100 2
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no one should bully anyone
no one likes a bully.
tell someone u can trust
do not get involved with this bully
don't bring yourself down to their level.
i got bullied in school
hated school
in the army now and hate bullies.
be your great self and be good to your friends
lol jp
2007-01-20 16:31:10
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answered by johnc 4
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tell a friend first
i know ure not gonna like this one but you really should tell someone or ppack up some courage and confront her
u cant live all ur life beying bullyed by people
good luck
2007-01-20 16:23:51
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answered by manu4eva 2
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well is she threatening to beat you up or is she talking about you what anyways you should tell someone unless you take matters into your own hands but hey it could be about anything you should ask her whats her problem but dont get to close to her because she might try to swing but you should try and talk to her someway or ignore her completely
2007-01-20 16:46:27
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answered by russellpeltierjr 2
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Tell someone who can make a difference to your situation and give you some real help
2007-01-20 16:15:14
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answered by Anonymous
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Tell your Parents and Teacher immediately ! Do not hesitate!
2007-01-20 16:14:35
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answered by Anonymous
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Tell everyone,especially your mum,dad and teacher.
2007-01-23 22:49:16
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answered by animalwatch 3
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