I'm 14 and in high school. i know i shouldn't care about this or anything but i sometimes feel jealous of people in HS with boyfriends. i don't need one, but it'd be nice to have someone in your life like that. you know? my best friends don't have boyfriends and we're ok with it. it's nothing to worry about.
i have lots of guy friends who love my personality. not be overconfident, but i don't think i'm ugly, i think i'm actually pretty (well most of the time) =)
but none of them feel that way about me. or any other guys i know. is it because in their eyes i'm just a little girl? because i'm flat and short? is that why no one likes me?
because like i said, i have a pretty good personality and i'm not ugly.
i know this sounds SOO superficial, but it's really how i feel sometimes.
2007-01-20 08:01:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well i don't care if YOU have had boyfriends or not VT girl. how long lasting are your relationships? T_T
2007-01-20 09:03:57 · update #1
wow you sound exactly like me! let me tell you something my mom always tells me: at this age guys can't choose the nice girls! It seems crazy but don't worry, they'll come around. it's perfectly normal to feel that way.
2007-01-20 09:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is totally normal. Those guys are all lames, remember that. Someone probably does like you, but they're intimidated by your beauty. Here's something I found on pimp.myyearbook.
Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples on top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.
2007-01-20 20:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by miss2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. I was in your shoes a few years back but trust me, as you get older, guys get more interested. Wait until the guys are like 16 or 17, they'll be a lot more interested. Boyfriends are great, I can't lie about that...but have fun hanging out with a whole bunch of guy friends until you have a boyfriend to hold you down!
2007-01-20 16:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by JoAnn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone one wants to be loved. Normal. It is high school and your gonna look back on this in ten years and wish it was so simple again. try expressing yourself with your friends and say I want someone to love and see who responds. But I feel that guy friends are way better than boyfriends cause your more yourself, and not trying to impress so much. I had a few boyfriends in high school and they weren't always there for me when i really needed someone they were usually interested in one thing , with my guys friends I could count on them. Just some points to ponder...
2007-01-20 16:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by bekki l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel that way. Don't worry about having a boyfriend. Hang out with your friends, have fun, get a lot of good times in. It is better to know that you have a boyfriend because he likes you, not because of what you look like. Don't rush it...
2007-01-20 16:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by tootsie38 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i totally think its normal to feel like that. And because you have the feeling you "shouldn't care" is enough for me to see whole heartedly that you are going to be just fine all through highschool. Boyfriends just happen. Usually when you aren't looking. So just do what you are doing to have fun, enjoy being a young single woman....because you will laugh about this one day.
2007-01-20 16:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by footgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
youre only 14 dont rush into boyfriends and stuff. i know you think im some oldfashioned adult but im 16 and can honestly say that if you wait and build a relationship out of a friendship, itll be what youre looking for and not just a week-long fling.
2007-01-20 16:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by Erick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am in the 8th grade and well i haven't had a boyfriend and yeah i would love to have one but gurl u don't need one i mean like at my school yesterday i saw my best friend's ex said about her and so i just think that yeah they like u for a while but right now there is no need to have one and so wut ur a flat chested it is not a look that makes a person it is the insides that makes a person
2007-01-20 19:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by ManDUH_BBY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it,s normal excessively that February 14Th is coming so you need to find a guy and write a letter to him say how much you love him and ask him dose he what to be your boyfriend and then he has to circle yes or no that,s all it take oya smile and flirt a little, good luck.
2007-01-20 16:08:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's perfectly normal, your friends just may not see you that way, your probably like a sister in their eyes. Don't rush into it, you'll find someone eventually, you're still young.
2007-01-20 16:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by life's fool 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋