What would you do?
1. His ex cheated on him and now he is a single dad
2. He's in his late 30's
3. We have been "active"
4. Sometimes he seems too busy to talk to me (3 sons and job takes a lot of his time)
5. He fixes things for me (around my house, and favors)
6. We go out to eat every so often
7. He comes over. and we always ends up "in the sack"
8. I asked him what he wants, and he says "I don't know what I want"
9. I'm a single mom
10. I'm in my early 20's
11. I have feelings for him, but I don't tell him that I love him (I'm afraid he wont feel the same)
12. He fixes me dinner
13. We've been dating for about 2 months
2007-01-20 07:58:45 · 11 answers · asked by thirtytwo_characters_2_work_with 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
He doesn't want me dating other guys ~ I asked him
2007-01-20 08:23:54 · update #1
and he isn't dating anyone else
2007-01-20 08:24:29 · update #2
Just reading the headline i answered yes, leave him.
If you have to ask . . . ?
After reading 13 reasons, hell yes. Is you self-esteem so low you don't think you could do better? I don't even know you and I think you can with a guy with no baggage!
Sounds like you're just booty call, eh?
Don't think about it any more, just DO IT!
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2007-01-20 08:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having sex with him complicates his life he doesnt know you you need to be freinds first before being sexual if you want to help him kill the sex and be friends first and then explain that you two need to be freinds first to bring trust to each other so he can relax and get over his pain. he should appriciate this also he should get paternity tests immediately for all his kids many people dont realize when they have this the kid is yours they look just like them who's to say she didnt cheat on him with a guy that looks like him hence what attracts her to him is just her type most times types look the same and for you i dont know why you got involved with a guy who has three kids and it would seem you knew him before he broke up with his ex
a big no no you hadnt helped him by doing this now you need to stay to essentially fix what you have done as well as his relationship issues sorry dear
2007-01-20 16:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to follow your own heart. No one can tell you what to do. If you like him and like his company and the sex(lol) then stay around but don't commit yourself to just him. Date other people if you like. Is he dating anyone else, would he care if you were? You really didn't give us alot to go on as far as feelings, commitment, his expectations and your expetations.
2007-01-20 16:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by Thumper 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it more time; it's only been 2 months. You both need to figure out what you want and who you want, and don't get pregnant.
2007-01-20 16:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by Bowllynn 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you are looking for a commitment and he's not. "I don't know what I want"??.. well at his age he should. I know you care about him.. but get out while you can... while it won't hurt as much...
2007-01-20 16:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by WhoDidThat??? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shoot girl, just ride that pony and see where it takes you. You can always leave later.
2007-01-20 16:10:47 · answer #6 · answered by Cowboy Bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask the answer is obvious. i am sure someone much smarter than me said that ....
2007-01-20 16:07:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys that age with 3 kids know what they want .......red flag! LEAVE!
2007-01-20 16:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 months isnt very long...id say give it some more time....
2007-01-20 16:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by Triton 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go
2007-01-20 16:02:28 · answer #10 · answered by amberharris20022000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋