2007-01-20 07:58:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
try setting the mood for her first. maybe a drink, candles or saomething.
2007-01-20 08:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by tallbrwntexasgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself several questions.
Is she someone who was repressed sexually growing up? Do you love her? Does she love you or is she "in love" with the idea of being married? Do you see yourself with her 10, 20, 50 years from now?
If loves you and you love her, maybe you could go to a couple's counselor before marriage. You do not want to commit to a situation that will not work out for either of your sakes.
Another thought is if she's sexually repressed in some ways, try to help her find her inner vixen. Many women have been programmed by parents, church, & society that they should not have sexual feelings and thoughts. Woman are as human as men, and need to embrace their whole beings. A patient and understanding sexual partner (husband/fiance) can bring a woman to a greater understanding of her own wants and needs in life.
2007-01-20 18:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by dam_9191 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can you do? First thing I'd do is re-think and re-examine the commitment if you like sex and don't like having it killed. On the other hand, if it is simply a matter of getting her cranked up so she forgets about the analysis then you have a challenge on your hands instead of a deal-breaker.
2007-01-20 16:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make her your wife. Most marriages with the lack of lust or even plain sex will founder at some point. Sooner or later someone else will attract you physically, and that's no way to conduct yourself in a marriage.
2007-01-20 16:04:06 · answer #4 · answered by Suz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to try and work it out with her. If you can't she may not be the woman for you unless you both realize that sex in your relationship isn't important to you. but it seems like it is to you. talk to her. maybe she doesn't realize she is doing it.
2007-01-20 16:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you also asked us regarding the way your fiance changed right after your engagement?
You defiantly need to seriously work on your relationship, otherwise it will get worse once you are married. read my previous answer to your dilemma.
2007-01-20 16:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry her. You won't have much of a relationship and your marriage probably won't last.
2007-01-20 16:25:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get sum sex toys
2007-01-20 16:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋