through e-mails and yahoo messenger.
how can i make the relationship more solid. i have no money, neither does she. she had malaria a fourtnight ago and she needs meds. money is not important, so i am going send some, regardless of what people say. are there genuine people in lagos. i don't really care what people say. i love the girl and she loves me. that is all that count's. has anyone ever had any success with internet dating.
2007-01-20 07:37:46 · 10 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
4 Days ago you fancied a girl who works in a beauty salon down the road and 3 daus ago you were going to approach her about it.
How can you have found true love with this lady in Nigeria if you are looking at a girl down the road for a relationship.
You are a player. Leave the poor lass in Nigeria alone, she has been unwell and you are leading her on.
2007-01-20 07:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by angie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very likely this girl is ripping you off. Its even possible she doesnt exist as these scams are often run by gangs. I have tried internet dating myself and met some nice people but just ignore all the too good to be true ones. If they write to you from another country how likely is it that they are genuine? It really is common sense.
Do a search on yahoo using the text she sent in her first message and if it comes up as sent to others you know its a fraud, they often send the same emails to lots of guys.
I had a girl email me who originally said she was from Los Angeles but then revealed she was a model living in Nigeria. Like how likely is it she would need me? Have met a lovely Russian girl though, the difference is she has lived in my counttry for years and doesnt need or want my money or my Visa. Before her went out with a Brit and she was false... you never can tell.
Be careful but it can work.
2007-01-21 18:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by Skippy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost 100% chance everything out of Nigeria is fake/scam/rip-off.
Your 'girlfriend' might not even be female ! (don't be fooled by 'nice looking photos' - the Internet is full of nice photo's ...)
Carry on if you must - I can guess how it will go ..
... you send a few meds.. today, maybe some more meds tomorrow -
.. then you get 'official' notice that meds you sent are illegal ... Girlfriend arrested but says you innocent - even so you are convicted of assisting Drug Smuggling by Lagos High Court & you pay the fine or face Extradition ...
.. then you hear your Girfriend is in jail .. just needs a few £££ for Lawer...
.. then she's convicted and faces Death Penalty ... just needs money for appeal ... appeal fails, now needs money to bribe guards & escape ... money for passport, money for Flights, money to bribe airport officials .... etc etc.
2007-01-20 16:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by Steve B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recently read an article in my newspaper about a gentleman who fell in love with a woman from Nigeria and communicated with her over the internet for many years. She kept asking him for more and more money for various things. He ended up sending her tens of thousands of dollars. Eventually he went to visit her in Nigeria. Weeks later he was found murdered with his belongings stolen. She and some other men were arrested for his murder. I am not saying that there are not genuine people out there, but please be very careful. There are many, many scams run out of Nigeria.
2007-01-20 15:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by newjen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry mate but this does sound like some sort of scam to me, nigeria is the top spot for such scams, their stories cover just about everything. Dont fall for it. Get yourself a real live gf closer to home, at least you'll know what you're getting yourself into then.
2007-01-20 15:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my Nigerian banker friend tell you what as soon as he send me my money i give you some for her meds.
2007-01-20 15:55:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
scam. It's a man, not a woman and you are being taken for a ride.
2007-01-22 21:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by kadel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be alarmed when you hear SUCKER.Just think youll be getting fed and you wont even enjoy it.
2007-01-20 15:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by slp9209 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Internet dating,maybe but she is so obviously screwing you for money !!!
2007-01-20 15:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a con!
2007-01-20 15:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋