i have been married for 19 years and we have children 18,14and 3
years old.after i gave birth to my third child my busband went to asia for vacation and he met a girl there and he fell in love with her since then.he told me he would stop but its been three years he still call her every day and he even have special phone line just for her.
2007-01-20 07:35:13 · 7 answers · asked by lj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you serious? Leave!!! There is no excuse for your husband's behavior, other than he doesn't love you anymore. You can be so much happier with someone else.
2007-01-20 07:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by gobanana516 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is my advise ...u might not like it. i feel like a man don't know how it feels until it's done to him. so u can do 1 of the 2 things I'm going to give you. 1. you can do the same thing that he is doing. just go out there and meet someone to take your mind off of your husband, or you can just go to school and let him pay all the bills. the reason for that one is you will be too busy to trip off what he is doing all the long you are preparing yourself to leave him and be financially responsible. trust it will work i would opt no. 2.
2007-01-20 15:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by Twyla R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it either stops or your done,
If your missing part of his pay, don't think for a minute he isn't sending her money. Your kids are apparently not part of his life, or he would have stopped this before it got started. All that does is hurt the kids seeing the parents fight, and hurt each other, that begins the vicous circle of violence.
It's your choice though on what to do.
2007-01-20 15:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by spiritwalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have to put up with that kind of behavior.....how would he feel if you did the same thing......he's not being respectful to you, not setting a good example for your children either.......i would NOT like the fact he still talks to her.......you do what you feel is best for you and your children........what's up with the girl???? she knows he's married and still talks to him every day???? you deserve alot more respect !!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-20 15:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by nemofish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Tell him to get rid of her NOW...and if he doesn't, take the three and 14 year olds and leave.
2007-01-20 15:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its over..Leave....Its time for you to move on now....and I am sure you can find someone who is going to respect you and NOT treat you that way....Good Luck!!
2007-01-20 16:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by bryan c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE.....QUICKLY... as long as you put up with it...he will do....be firm and leave him.....he will regret his decision after divorce court...
2007-01-20 15:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by Chilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋