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i fancy this boy but i dont know whether he fancies me back i mean he doesnt usually talk to me that much but he does with other girls ive known him for a year and hes so nice to me and his parents are good friends with my dad on sunday hes coming round my house and i dont know what to do. i mean i see him on the way to school and once looked at him and he stared at me, and when i waved at him he smiled and nodded his head at me. all my friends say i should move on but im to shy to ask him out do you thimk hes shy of me and fancies me or not

2007-01-20 07:29:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

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Seems like he's being friendly at the moment by just acknowledging you.

Talk to him when he pops round on Sunday. That's probably the best way to start up with him, by talking and getting to know him better.

2007-01-20 08:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0 0

ok i have had some practise with this as i act as an agony aunt to my friends but dont be certain of what i say

firstly if you have spoken to this person and he speaks back tehn he is not shy, although in my experience if you always have to make the first move when you speak he may be !

then if he tend so stare at you, when you feel you are at you best then there is a good chance he likes whether this be as a friend of girl friend

you should act calm with him when he comes round house , and if he shows any signs then move on

but dont rush take things slowly, if he starts the convo then gradually changethe topic onto how he feels about certain people and who his friends are until it comes down to who he might fancie although you must be prepared for him to say something that doesnt include your name. But if you feel this isnt working you should just turn to him when you are on your own and explain thet you would like to get to know him better and see what he says he should get the message and things begin from here i hope this helps ! x


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2007-01-20 07:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by jess long 1 · 0 0

unless he is really shy, i think the guy will make a move if he really likes a gal.

reading ur case, it seems like u dun really show that u like him becoz of ur shyness. mayb u can try to talk to him more. find some common ground or ask him out for a movie etc. since he comes round ur house, mayb u can ask him to help u with some heavy chores or juz simply find an excuse to hang out with him n get to know him more.

lastly, i agree with ur friends that u should move on if u r too shy to ask him or at least make a move to hint to him tat u fancy him.

i wish u all the best !!!~

juz hav some courage k !!!~

;p

2007-01-20 08:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by jolyn7 1 · 0 0

this boy could either like you or hes just being nice! my advice to is to when he comes on sunday talk to him, be yourself and enjoy at the end see how he is and the nyou'll be able to decide if he really likes you or if he just wants to be friends! if your still confused then ask him out and hope for the best the only things he can say is yes or no! if he says no hes not the one for you and there are plenty more fish in the sea! good luck

2007-01-21 04:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hi Cherelle B
The easiest way to find out is to get to know him, first you must get over your/his shyness by spending time together & just talking to each other, find out what he likes, tell him what you like, suggest doing sometghing together, for instance, you could mention that there is a movie on that you would like to see & ask if he wants to come with you to keep you company.
Don't force things just be friendly, you will soon know if he is interested as he will want to meet you again.
if after a while you still feel the same way then things will happen naturally
I would suggest that you don't need your friends to add their comments as it might frighten him off if he thinks you are talking to others about him, after all what you & him do together is none of your friends business, is it?
good luck & let me know how it goes ..

2007-01-23 15:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by healer 5 · 0 0

Have you ever thought this boy might be shy in the fact that he likes you too,and doesn't know how to approach you..the fact that he is coming over to your house proves he likes you..Play music .talk of things like cinema filmstars ..food (this is always good )the way to a mans heart is through his stomach...etc

2007-01-20 08:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by silver44fox 6 · 0 0

If he really liked you he would make a move. But then again he might be shy. Pay close attention on how he reacts with other girls and see from there. Or you can also try approaching him and see how it goes.
Good luck.

2007-01-20 07:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by pianodude 2 · 0 0

Ask him...if it turns out he just likes you as a friend, then you can move on. It's likely he feels the same way I reckon. And besides, what is the worst that can happen to you if he says no?

2007-01-20 07:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by ellietricitycat 4 · 0 0

you mustn't could desire to 'Make Boys Fancy You!" Boys in many situations like it in case you do no longer attempt to act huge or anyting like that around them as this suggests you're no longer being you. in case you're no longer you, you're able to fulfill a boy who sees you completely incorrect and that could desire to be completely embarasing!

2016-11-25 22:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

You really won't know until you get to know him better. Talk to him, say hi to him more often.

2007-01-20 08:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by lightkitty14 2 · 0 0

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