2007-01-20 07:29:20 · 9 answers · asked by fballcoach83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go through with the plan, have lots of fun. A woman will feel really good if you can still have fun with her without having sex. It shows that you actually like her for her and not what she can do for you. Then, after the whole trip she would of worked up an appetite for you, being so sweet when she was bleeding and you may have another "time of your life" when you get home! *winkwink*
2007-01-20 07:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does her period ruin your surprise? I bet this would surprise her...if she told you she couldnt because of her period, and you told her there were other things you could do. Surprise her with mutual masturbation. Surprise her with your creativity. Let her know that penetration isn't EVERYTHING, and that you both can still please each other even during 'this time'. I bet THAT would be a surprise to her. Explore being naked together (or her in just panties) and lie on the bed together. Play. Have fun. Be romantic. Spoil her with hours of foreplay. Touch, feel, caress. I bet THAT would surprise her and maybe make it the most memorable getaway you've had. You would show that your giving, and not selfish. You would place her needs above your own. Was that the intent of the 'surprise getaway'...to make her feel special? Or...did u just want to get off?
I think this gives you the perfect opportunity to knock her socks off!
Good Luck, Brother...
2007-01-20 15:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by Soldier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she take birth control? If so, then maybe you can tell her you have a special weekend planned. Don't tell her anymore details than that, and it will still be a great surprise. Then once you tell her, you could maybe mention that it might be nice if she could just continue on to her next pack of Birth control before having her period. Then she could just skip her period that month. I have asked my doctor about skipping my periods, and it's fine to do just every now and then. But if she doesn't take birth control or she doesn't feel comfortable doing that, then plan another date, or continue with the plans. She will really appreciate you trying to romance her even when you know nothing sexual will happen. Props to you for doing this for her, I bet she'll love it. Have fun! :-)
2007-01-20 16:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by tulugrl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
re schedule the trip, or deal with the "fallout"
Lots of women ( who are comfortable with themselves and their mates ) are more horny, when OTR.
So, bring some extra towels, and have a "bloody good time mate". Also, her mouth ain't bleeding (LOL).
LOL.. I am sure you will still have fun.. If she is not in the mood, then just enjoy all the other activities!
2007-01-20 15:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by thinkaboutmoney 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would being on her period change your mind about doing something nice for your wife. She is a big girl and knows how to take care of the situation.
2007-01-20 15:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by kny390 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
take her to a motel separate bed's while she is on her period buy her 3 package's of kotex and get her extra under wear
2007-01-20 15:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, keep up the date and don't expect sex. Have her wear a tampon if she goes swimming. If there is a way around it... your wife will find how to help you.
2007-01-20 15:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can still go if she is on her period or if u don't want 2 then just plan it another time enjoy ur trip.
2007-01-20 15:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do everything you want without the sex, it will work and the relationship will grow stronger. Good luck.
2007-01-20 15:33:22 · answer #9 · answered by J J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋