what should i say back to my boyfirned?

Question

last night around 12 my boyfriend called to invite me to go snowboarding with him in the morning. Him and his friends and there girlfriends were all going, so he wanted to know if i could to. I said ya, maybe. And he tells me ok were going at 7, so i'll call u alittle before. Its know 3 pm and he never called me... I know some of his firends girlfriends couldn't go, but he should have at least called me... right? I'm not positive if hes snowboarding rite now but im pretty sure he is. What makes me annoyed though is that earlier that day i told him, we should definitly go snowboarding somtime soon. He tells me, ya but its really packed at the mountains nereby, and i don't really feel like it. But then when his friends ask him to go to that same, "packed" mountain hes like ya lets go!!! It makes me feel like he would rather be with his friends then me. And we only have the weekends to hang out, so its not like he never gets to chill with them... do u think i should b annoyed?

he just texted me and said yo, like nothings wrong. should i just ignore it or say somthing back? I'm really mad, that he couldn't even take 2 minutes to call and tell me we couldn't go snowboarding together. and i now that hes there now.

Answer 1

I don't know what age you are, but boys tend to be thoughtless up to...well, forever. If you think it will make any impact on him, say something. He's probably too self-absorbed anyway. In answer of course you should be annoyed!!!! Don't let him treat you like that. Of course, it will depend on whether or not u love him etc. You could try to get back at him in petty ways (could be fun...) Try testing him by making "plans" soon, when you've arranged something with him. If he seems to care.....If he doesn't , move on.

Answer 2

I'd be a more than a tad miffed if my friend - any friend - called and said, let's go boarding at 7:00 am and I"d be all up and ready to go and then they never show, let alone call - it's rude and disrespectful. So go ahead - tell him how you feel about it. If your really like to go plan your own trip and don't wait around for him.

Answer 3

Yeah, girl i feel ya he tried you up, what you should do is get your girlfriends and go you sometimes and when he calls you. You ask him do he want to go and if he says yeah and then knowingly you really don't wnat him to go wait untill you are there whereever you guys go at and tell him that you have already left.Hahaha and see how he feels wait until you're on the way home,and call him and say we've already been,and i tried to call you. That should fix him.

Answer 4

There's only one answer to a situation like this:

Ninjas.

Nothing says "get the hell away from me you loser" like having his throat cut in his sleep my black-clad martial artists.

Ok, so ninjas may be a little extreme, but I think you're well within your rights to be upset. You need to talk to (not text) your boyfriend. If this is a one-time thing and you're otherwise pretty happy, try to work it out. He made a mistake today, and he needs to understand that you're hurt. If this is a regular problem though, where he can't balance time with you and time with his friends, I think you need to give serious thought to looking for a more attentive boyfriend...someone who will WANT to sepnd their time with you.

Answer 5

Don't ignore him tell him how you feel. That you only have weekends to spend togther and would like to spend some time togther. Tell him it's ok to spend time with his frineds aswell as you.Tell him it would have been nice for him to call and day if you were going snow boarding or not. Make it clear to him.

Answer 6

yea get of your chest let him know how it makes you feel.then you can move on and not be p.o at him.