continuation of "ok, this is the scenario"...I have spoken with her several times for the last 8 mnths and nothing has changed. she says."sit me down, and let's talk"...I do...but she doesn't listen...let's say, I talk to her @ 8am, by 11am, she can't remember half of our conversation...I documented her "outbursts"..it happens every 4-5days...we talk..one week, we good..then back to the 4-5 days outbursts...I ask her often, why did you just yell and scream at me...what reason..she can't remember why...I feel bad b/c i'm not doing anything...so, I wonder if I was...one friend said"it's b/c you leave the house w/o her...you have friends...".....she is mean/hateful to people for no reason....point...leaving Wallyworld....greeter says, may I c ur receipt...she stops...looks very mean at her...gives her the receipt..sighs heavily...then snatches it back, after she looks at it...
2007-01-20 07:14:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not sure how old she is but you may want to take her to the doctor and have her checked for early menopause or a hormonal imbalance. Sounds like she is unbalanced somewhere. Then get her to talk to a therapist. I bet it is early menopause though.
2007-01-20 07:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by samantha s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm about being asked to show a receipt, I think many people would be annoyed, especially if they were already having a bad day. Maybe she does have a problem but that's not a good example. I'm not totally sure about the outbursts either without being able to see what actually goes on. She might be the abusive one, or you might be the one provoking her and then denying it. Ok well either way, obviously this isn't a healthy relationship. It would be best for both of you just to go your separate ways, otherwise you will stay trapped in a negative pattern.
2007-01-20 07:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
i am sorry for what you are going through here, but i think that it is one of the two; ether this is her nature (you should know) or that she is stressed about something.
You shouldnt be sad because you are trying your best to help her and make your relation work. pray for her to have a peace.
bbye
2007-01-20 07:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by mal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and try to find a stable relationship.
It's not worth the turbulence of one day good and the next... Bad.
Who needs it?
2007-01-20 07:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like shes just... well... unstable. With HERSELF.
I think she needs professional help theyre might be something that roots deeper to her problem.
2007-01-20 07:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by Christines256 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You fight this battle with your hat. Grab it and RUN like the wind.
2007-01-20 07:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she does not like herself;therefore,how can she love/like you
2007-01-20 07:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋