My wife leaves for work at least an hour early , do you think she's cheating?

Answer 1

My husband likes leaving early to give himself plenty of time incase of an accident or traffic. he also likes to have some coffee and have a moment of peace before a long, busy usually frustrating day of dealing with people who don't have there heads screwed on proplerly.

It used to bother me but I asked him about it and I've gotten used to it. Plus he is faithful and everyone at work knows everything about me , not from me though.

Besides if he was cheating it would be his loss. I trust my man though very important in a marriage.

Just ask her about it, tell her you were just wondering. Don't mention you think shes cheating or the conversation might get ugly.

Answer 2

I don't know about you, but when I go to work I have some rituals I like to do on the way. There's this cute little coffee shop right down the street from my job I like to hit up, grab a latte and catch up on some good reading. I'll go into the job, listen to some music in the break room and then clock in for work. If I don't do any of this, work is a drag and doesn't move quick enough for me. Could it be that she does things in the morning like grab a donut or something before clocking in? Maybe she has ways to go before getting to work.

I believe the real question is why are you so insecure? If you really love and trust your wife, the fact that she leaves an hour early wouldn't bother you. Try talking to her about it and see what she says. If you know her as well as I hope, then you'll see first hand if she's lying or not. Trust her: if all she does is leave for work an hour early, and there are no other signs, maybe this is all in your head.

Answer 3

Not necessarily, I know a lot of people who like to get to work early so they can take in what's been going on, or sit and chat and have a coffee before they start, or change into their work clothes/shoes, put their lunch away...lots of stuff. It's less stressful on a person, instead of always speeding to make the light, rushing to get everything in order so you can start your shift, it really sucks to be ALMOST late all the time, and is the main cause of a lot of ulcers. If she is cheating, there will be other signs of it. If there's just this one, I wouldn't worry about it. Not to mention, an hour is only enough time to stop for a quickie, with an eye on the clock, and women in general usually prefer more time than that, as it takes a while to get in the mood sometimes. A guy would have no problem with an hour, but not a woman. Two hours maybe, but not one.

Answer 4

Not enough sufficient evidence to warrant cheating.

Some work places don't like co-workers fraternizing during work hours. She might want to get some work caught up before the bosses come in or she could be wanting some alone time before the work day starts and if you have kids she isn't getting that from home. Some people leave early to grab a bite to eat before work, others go to the gym or tan. She could be stopping by to see a friend or relative who is home-bound. Or running errands for someone.

Answer 5

No, not necessarily. I leave an hour early everyday to chat with my co workers and prepare myself for my work day. So, If that's the only thing she's doing that is making you suspicious, then just ask her why she leaves an hour early. If there are other things that are bothering you, then you really need to sit down an have a talk with her. Us females like to be early and be prepared so it may be nothing.

Answer 6

Just because she leaves early is not a sign of cheating. It could be, but there would be other signs also, like new clothes, staying late, making excuses to not be home with you.. But going in an hour early is not good enough. I go to work early everyday, because I like to make sure my work area is ready for my new day, I also like to give time for traffic or weather if its bad, and it might be what she is doing.. Why not ask her, I am sure she will tell you why. just don't accuse her of anything.

Answer 7

Did you think to ask her why she leaves so early? Maybe you could do it in a sweet way so it doesn't feel like an invasion of privacy. When she goes to get out of bed, hug her a little tighter and ask if she needs to go right now. Tell her she has plenty of time to get to work and you want to be with her right now. See what she says. Maybe she is just trying to beat traffic or get something productive done like that other girl said.

Answer 8

I leave for work an hour early, and I am not cheating- but it also takes me 30min to get to work and I have to leave time for traffic. Insead of asking a million people if she is cheating you should go straight to the source and ask her.

Answer 9

Don't worry so much. Alot of people leave for work early. If you think that she is cheating then try having her followed. My first husband did that to me because he thought that I was cheating on him. Well, he did not find out anything and wasted all his money on an investigator. He was the one who was cheating on me.

Answer 10

My question to you is, does she get home late from work?? Does she turn her cell phone off when she's at home?? Really leaving an hour early to work isn't much time to get to work have an affair and freshen up, right??? But then again it might be someone at her work, the best thing to do is ask her or call Cheaters.