2007-01-20 06:03:40 · 14 answers · asked by bianca 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It is obviously a one way relationship. He does not feel the same way you do. You deserve better. Cut your losses and move on before you regret more.
2007-01-20 06:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by the_twenty_car 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Regardless of what other women will tell you, the fact that he has cheated on you does NOT neccessarily mean that he doesn't love you. It MIGHT be an indication of that, but again, not neccessarily. Men and women are different than each other. Any person over the age of 11 understands that. Men have ALWAYS had a view of sex that is more shallow and less profound than women's. A man CAN have sex with multiple partners and only love one of them. It happens ALL THE TIME. It happens with women too, just not as often.
Does this mean the cheating husband loves his wife? There is NO WAY anyone but the wife can answer that. All I'm saying is that it is possible for a man to cheat (and for a woman to cheat) and still be in love with his spouse.
The spouse in question needs to decide if the marriage is saveable, if it's WORTH saving and whether or not they can ever trust the cheater again. If the answer to those questions is 'yes', then go for it. If it's 'no', you need to move on.
2007-01-20 06:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can a husband who is loved so much cheat?
2007-01-20 06:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by lanisoderberg69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I loved my husband very much when I left him [years ago] and added into the cheating throw in some very brutal domestic violence................trust me if that's how they are they DO NOT care either way and its up to you to salvage your pride and KNOW you deserve much better than this, you can STILL love him but put up with that type of BS NOPE.
And trust me if this is the first you have found out about there is more than likely 5 you DONT know about...........
2007-01-20 06:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by candy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are here on earth to live freely so if he cheats on you it means that you are the only one in love, he doe snot love you anymore. you choose to leave him because you do not want to be a victim in love prefer to be free.
2007-01-20 06:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really your choice. Confront him about his infidelity first hear what he has to say for himself. Perhaps a separation first rather than an outright leave? If all else fails just tell him its an unforgivable offense and tell him its over. But if he regrets it and you still love him its possible to salvage your marriage!
2007-01-20 06:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by Princess Chan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to leave your husband,even if he did cheat.It is possible to forgive and go on with the marraige.Notice I didnt say forgive and 'forget'.It takes alot of love,comittment and willingness to honestly communicate with each other.Its not always pretty,and it hurts like H***,but if you love him its worth it.
2007-01-20 06:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by Dee F 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to leave if you don't want to, there are other ways of dealing with it, YOU decide!!. You HAVE TO let him know that this is totally unacceptable.
2007-01-20 13:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's cheating on you he must not love you anymore. And think about it, if he doesn't love you, then certainly you don't want to waste your love on him.
2007-01-20 06:11:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Woman it seems to me create their own problems with their choices in men. You picked him.
It makes it hard for nice guys like myself to find a women that does not have a nightmarish past with men.
2007-01-20 06:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋