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My Best Friend Is 14. And She Has Just had Sex With her boyfriend.
Shes Not on the Pill And He Didnt Use A Condom.
She threw Up this Morning. Her Breasts Hurt. And She is VERY Moody.
But it Only Happened Last Night.
Is It Possible To Have Pregnancy signs This Early On?
Please only serious Answers.
This Is her Life.
An Adult does Know By the way. She told My Mum Cause Mines A Bit younger then hers.

2007-01-20 05:47:40 · 24 answers · asked by kayytea_h 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

24 answers

no its far to early, but if it was only last night she can take the emergancy pill, which you can get free from your doctors or local family planing clinic, or you can buy it from the chemist for £22
you can have the pill with 72 hours from having unprotected sex,
if you need any advice or help please feel free to email me x

2007-01-20 05:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sorry I am a parent, still young though and had to answer this question.

It isn't possible, She shouldn't be going that far with him. I know people say it is okay and normal. I am 22 and a mother of four, had my first child at 13. It is very hard being a young mother. I can tell you though my children all have the same father and we have been married 6 years and are in just as much love as the day we met. I shouldn't of let things go as far as they did either it just happened though. I don't regret it one bit. I don't recommend abortion or the morning after pill. Thoose things just allow people to keep fooling around because they can just terminate the baby if they dont want it. Not responsible actions at all. If she is pregnant than she has a serious and very hard decision to make. There is a place that can help or if you have any questions or need advice they helped me a lot please look into it if she is pregnant.

http://www.thecrisispregnancycenterct.org/

2007-01-20 06:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah A 1 · 0 0

It is too early to have signs of pregnancy...her breasts are probably sore from being fondled roughly ...if she was drinking alcohol last night then that could be making her sick...she is probably moody because she has had quite an intense experience and is not sure how to handle the situations....
But it is possible she may be pregnant as they used no protection ...she should wait a few weeks and if she does not have her period then do a test.
you were right to tell your mum, just keep her informed of what is going on and she will be the best to give advice as she knows both you and your friend better than anyone on the net.

2007-01-20 05:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by blazing_staruk 3 · 0 0

If that was the first time she had sex and she is having the signs the next day, she is just super worried about being pregnant. A lot of the times when you convince yourself that you are pregnant, or you are constantly thinking that you are, then you can imagine the signs.

Hopefully this will be a lesson to her. If she is going to continue having sex knowing that she can get pregnant or an STD, at least use a condom. Or better yet, get on the pill and use a condom.

2007-01-20 05:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by Barbi 4 · 0 0

You can not get signs this early on, however your friend should seek medical advice quickly for a morning after pill so as she doesnt get pregnant.
Maybe your friend is just trying to look big by letting you know she had sex! Talk to your friend about the importannce of using a condom not only to avoid getting pregnant but the many sexual diseases that you can get from unprotected sex, many that can ruin your chance of motherhood in the future.

2007-01-20 21:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by jdlover 1 · 0 0

did she do something else in addition to unprotected sex?
i don't know if it's possible...but maybe she has an std?:S
maybe she also got drunk or something and that could account for the throwing up
maybe her breasts hurt cuz he was squeezing them alot during sex or something
maybe she is VERY moody cuz she feels sick and is super worried about being pregnant
it's a good thing the two of u spoke with ur mom about it
but make sure she learns to always use protection from now on
hopefully this is a good lesson for the two of u
ok
xao:)
xao

2007-01-20 07:43:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Your friend wouldnt show signs of pregnancy that fast from last night but if she has had un-safe sex with her boyfriend before that then there is a chance that she could be pregnant. Get her to take a test asap or go to your family planning clinic. If she finds out she isnt pregnant which I really hope she does then please advise her to see her doctor about contraception! Take care and good luck for your friend

2007-01-20 10:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by thedaddy 4 · 0 0

GET HER TO A DOCTOR RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! FOR A MORNING AFTER PILL

OR PHAMACIST, OR FAMILY PLANNING CLINIC, GUM CLINIC, PLANNED PARENTHOOD, CASULTY DEPARTMENT, A&e IE EMERGENCY DEPT, YOUTH CLINIC, SEXAUL HEALTH.

NOW.


NO WAITING FOR OTHER RESPONSES

NO CHECKING HERE AGAIN.

************

The morning after emergency pill will be 95% effective if taken within 24 hours

IE NOW GET THE POINT !!!!!!!!!!!!!

TICK TOCK TICK TOCK

UP TO 85 % IF TAKEN WITHIN 25-48 HOURS

(if you wait for more answers0

up to 58% if taken 49 - 72 hours.

IF An ADULT KNOWS WHY THE HELL HAS SHE NOT TAKEN HER TO GET A PILL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GO NOW !!!!!!!!!!!!!

NOT !!!

TOMMORROW !!

MORNING !!


N-O-W

Iif she has a problem with this tell her mum immediately or go to even if she says she wont be mates or give her a slap to knock some sense into her.

You will be acting as her friend.

If Her mum is not some anti abortion nut she will do the same.


www.ruthinking.co.uk

www.childline.org.uk

www.4yp.co.uk

www.fpa.co.uk

www.brook.org.uk

these will say the same


GO NOW


Come back and tell us what happened

2007-01-20 08:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Your friend need to go have pregnancy test. Because like they say it only take one time to get pregnant. Why would you have sex at the age of 14 anyway? You're to young to be having sex. You should of used a CONDOM.

2007-01-20 07:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No, those signs are way to early. Is it possible she had unprotected sex a while back before last night. I suggest she gets a pregnancy test right now. Good luck.
~Hugz

2007-01-20 06:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by runner. 5 · 0 0

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