ive been in a relation ship for five years.i left him for reasons and ive only been away from him for two weeks.and i feel like a small piece of me still miss's him.i can't be with him but i also don't want to be with out him.what do i do,how do i try to let him out of my life?
2007-01-20 05:15:46 · 24 answers · asked by sherrieyahrmatter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First off, judging on how you misspelled break up as brake up, you are young enough to recover from this. Secondly, it will take some time for you to be able to date again, so don't rush into it. Lastly, I don't recommend going back with your ex, just hang out with friends and you will meet the guy for you eventually.
2007-01-20 05:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sir Alex Awesome Valentine, Esq. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie,only time will help you,I am afraid.
I know it sounds cliche, but it is true.........I have broken up with my bf 5 months ago and I still miss him sometimes. However, there also were reasons for the break up and in my head I know, it was the right decision and I am better off without him.
Unfortunately, knowing that does not make you fall out of love with the person immediately! Just try to be strong and patient, it will get better each day.
When I feel down and miss him, I just turn to my friends for support. Normally, we will just go out to see a movie, or have dinner and have some fun, and it helps, you know, takes your mind of things, clears your head..............
Anyway, just try do something that you enjoy, anything really............hopefully, keeping yourself busy usually helps.
I wish you the best of luck, honey, and remember, there were valid reasons for your break-up so you have made the right decision! You have been together for five years, of course it is hard to let go of someone, who has been in your life for so long. It will get better though, I promise
Best of luck xxx
2007-01-20 05:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Al tho you can rationalize why you left and it seems right, you are
going to miss the way of life you had with him. I didn't have a good home life as a child, but in looking back I still miss it. Why is
a good question, but that's the way we work. Just keep busy and
know that better things will come your way. Don't let this set you
back. You have a lot of life to live. Get going!!
2007-01-20 05:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time and five years is quite a while. If you didn't have some feelings you'd be a sociopath. It's normal to have feelings after a break up. It helps to stay busy, do things you enjoy, hang out with your friends, get out in nature, volunteer, plan your life. How's that for some suggestions. Good luck.
2007-01-20 05:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to stay busy as possible so your mind will have less time to think about the break up. Shopping, spending time with family friends, chores pretty much anything that can keep you occupied. Whats helpful to me was being able to talk to friends, whenever i felt the need to call my ex, I would call a friend. Other than that time heals all wounds and what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
2007-01-20 05:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by meekmeek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately my friend, you are grieving. The only healthy way to get through it is to feel it. Feel the missing, the wanting, the loss, and the pain. Cry if you want to. Write him a letter that you may never send, telling him how you feel. When you have completely felt all the feelings, then let them go. Surrender them and start enjoying the feelings of freedom, self love, respect, and dignity. Time will heal all wounds.
2007-01-20 05:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by Let Love Be 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sadly this has happened to me one to many times, with a girl though, the thing that really helps me is, try to remember the bad parts... the part where everything went wrong.. all the hurt that u got courtesy of the relationship.... the part where bad thing happens as if on a collision course. it may not nessessarily work, but it does help a little
the only way to fully forget someone is with time, time heals all wounds
2007-01-20 05:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by noname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say but its gonna take awhileee for you to get over him... if u cant be friends with him then you should do things to help pass the time so u dont dwell on missing him... either pick up a sport or hobby or even just start to see other guys
2007-01-20 05:19:20 · answer #8 · answered by KONAtown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and see other people regain your confidence and stop reaching for past relationships.Take a few deep breaths and give yourself in a new way get gang-banged for instance try new and kinky things who knows maybe animals are your thing
2007-01-20 05:27:38 · answer #9 · answered by David C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink lots of Mountain dew! (thats at least what I do) this could also just be a on/off relationship. in a matter of time it is possible you might end up back together, you can also keep your mind off of him by watching some stand up comedy.
2007-01-20 05:22:42 · answer #10 · answered by Answerer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋