2007-01-20 04:46:39 · 10 answers · asked by m.genai 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
life is as colourful as rainbow, how u get the rainbow? after the rain , when the sun rises, right? so, after the bad experiences that u face, u might get sunshine, i mean new life, a happy one...think what will u get by the end of the day, your future in long term. don't ever trap yourself into troubles and lost hopes,as if there is a problem, there will be a solutions...try to overcome it, u will find the rainbow after the rain...best of luck
2007-01-20 05:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by ~~simply me~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a guy that has been there. I'm divorced, with kids, and have Spinal Cerubellar Ataxia (look it up)
From Thanksgiving to Valentines day is the suicide season. Jewelry stores tell you happiness is giving her a diamond. Christmas specials tell you that the holiday is about family.
If you live in the US, fortunately you have the NFL.
Pick a team and go.
No I can't help you with those last two weeks before Valentine's day.
If you are a woman, you got good advice
For any women remember that drill seargents and football coaches are not very supporting either.
If you are a guy, read on.
Most suicides are to "get at" somebody. They'll get over it before you do.
If you are that stupid, please kill yourself and quit whining about it. (Remember ladies, this is not for you.)
If you are the small percent of people who live with pain etc. I sympathize. I can relate. The reason I use is weird hope that tomorrow will be a good day with little pain. (Besides I can't kill myself while my football team is doing good.)
2007-01-20 05:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been through many difficult times, I know well the place where you are at my friend!
There have been times in my life when I have been in impossible situations including a hospital bed where I was in a permanently vegetative coma, where when I miraculously came out of coma was paralysed unable to walk or communicate but in intense unremitting pain with total amnesia unable to remember how to control bodily functions. I could not talk, I could not scream out in pain, I could not remember, I could not even move my eyes, things could not be any worse than this! I could not even lift a finger to end my life if I had wanted to, but I had to live and against impossible odds I fought and clawed my way back to a full recovery.
It was terrible and yet I am glad that I suffered and that I passed through death, survived, returned, and had bad, bad times even after that, so I could many times bring words of hope and purpose to one of my brothers & sisters on this tiny satellite we call Earth.
If you feel that your life is not worth living and you would climb a tall building to jump off, I hope that I am there to hold your hand so that you will know when you go you are not alone, you are not without a friend, you are not without someone that understands the enormity of the impasse you are at. You will know that I hold your hand not because I wish to die but because I wish for you to live, for like you my friend my time here is not yet done, and you will know that I will nevertheless risk my life for you for I know that you have a future and that your grief you can turn into the spring board of your inner greatness and peace!
My friend I would like to thank you for the help that you have given me since I still suffer with a lot of pain from that accident in 1978 which also gave me epilepsy so I never know when I am will seize again and literally stop living, and I do firmly believe that I am safe just as long as I am needed by people such as you that need help and support, and so it is for you my friend!
Find out who it is that needs you perhaps in this very column!
keithanthony (hypnotist)
2007-01-20 05:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by keithanthony0169 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to fix his life.
Usually this is best done with a qualified therapist. Drugs help, but merely cover the pain, and don't usually solve the problem.
So, get a physical, and go to therapy. Anti-depressants might be part or all of the solution, but expect to talk about painful things in therapy. The pain is very much worthwhile.
2007-01-20 04:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by geek49203 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Let me tell you something you already know, the world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place, and I don't care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently, if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard you hit, it's about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done. Now if you know what you're worth, now go out and get what you're worth, but you gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers saying you ain't where you wanna be because of him, or her, or anybody. Cowards do that and that ain't you. You're better than that!" -Rocky Balboa
2007-01-20 05:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by Greg S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about the positive and good things that happened to him the past, and look for something to do in the future that will make him feel better, more motivated and want to be in this life;
2007-01-20 04:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by zinaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps realize that the next life might not be all roses and happiness either,,,,,,, so look around and try to find some hope,,,, something good in this life
2007-01-20 04:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get special help....if you want to kill yoursefl you need to stay away from sharp things and.......because you are a threat to yourself.
Then figure out why do you want to kill yourself.
2007-01-20 04:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by bananna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell a friend or family member what you are feeling so they can help you.
2007-01-20 04:57:26 · answer #9 · answered by Pamela L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself who will you be leaving behind how will they feel about it, could you go happily knowing how they felt about it? then soak yourself in their love and understanding then ask yourself who loves you and how do you feel about it. HOW DO YOU REALLY FEEL ABOUT IT THEN ASK YOUR SELF AGAIN COULD i DO THIS TO THEM?
2007-01-20 04:51:06 · answer #10 · answered by sarell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋