hi i'm young male and i love women and i want to marry and love woman for the rest of my life , but male bodies attract me and especially the muscular and toes of men ? can anyone plz help me and there is a way to heal that , because i get aroused when i see a nude men , and toes are something always i'm curious to see it in men
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2007-01-20 04:24:46 · 13 answers · asked by roshdy a 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
you need to know first your real orientation , secondly this returns to your environment and traditions too , it seems that men in your life not much or you have a kind of problem with them , but from my point of view and my instinct you don't accept your body as a man , you accept it when you are with a women but with men you feel other feelings , i can see it's not sexual but you admire body and toes , toes has a meaning about relation with the mother earth , try to meditate and know yourself more to know why you are here in this lifetime and of course there is a reason you are a man , you don't need healing from people , you need healing from yourself , know yourself more and you'll find the answer . and try to use e.f.t , it is working very good with people
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2007-01-20 06:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by Truth 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you should probably get some counseling for this type of situation so that you can determine what your sexuality is
(gay, straight, or bi-sexual) because you don't sound sure about that.
You do not want to enter into any type of long term committed relationship until you know what your sexuality is and whether or not you can be comfortable with who you are.
In terms of being healed from your being aroused when you see nude men, I don't know if that is possible or not, but counseling may help you sort this out.
There may be some support groups for people who are not quite sure about their sexuality, and maybe they can help you.
All and all, if I were you, I would not seriously get involved with any one until you have come to terms with whatever your sexuality is.
Hope this helps.
2007-01-20 04:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by Seldom Seen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heal it? Sorry what?
Whatever turns you on, it just turns you on. Try not to think about all the muscular guys with toes at your wedding.
In all seriousness though, maybe you should check you aren't gay. I thought I was until I kinda tried it, now I know I'm not and don't have to worry about it any more.
...If you really want to heal yourself of this curse I believe the traditional method is flailing yourself with sharp chains and giving yourself 3rd degree burns. Thats what they did in the dark ages anyway, which I think was the last time anyone thought they could heal themselves of their sexual feelings...
2007-01-20 04:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by splat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all go through these things some more than others but we rarely stay that way just like haveing a craving for something we go through these stages and surpass them only those with issues tend to stay in them for the rest of theri lives it is nothing to be ashamed of but you may want to seek a different kind of help that explores anything that lead to these feeelsings in the first place and sort that out before you move on in your life. God Bless you for being honest.
2007-01-20 04:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by sarell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, I think that 90% of the human population finds themselves attracted to "the other side" once in a while! Gosh, if we were all smart, we'd all be "bi" since it gives us twice the chance of having sex!
Most of us are "bi", but heavily to one side or the other. Those who openly claim to be "bi" are usually somewhere closer to the center of that spectrum.
While you might not be able to control your attractions (and I'm not sure about that), you certainly can control how you react to them. You're not helpless in this matter, not just a victim of genetic code.
2007-01-20 04:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by geek49203 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just admire the looks of men...there is nothing wrong with that. Think of it this way, when a person gets married, it doesn't make him or her not ever notice a beautiful person. If you can be faithful, who cares who you find attractive!
2007-01-20 04:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by tellme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear gay people sometimes don't turn back. You should embrace your inner self a little and see how that goes. If that's not how your body wants to go then you're all set to go with a girl. Try both out a little bit.
2007-01-20 04:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by Perisss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being bisexual. I am 15 years old and I am bisexual. I like men and women and there nothing wrong with that. If you think you are bisexual just accept who you are, and see how it goes. Lots of people are bisexual, there is nothing wrong with it! I know I am bisexual because I get turned on when I see guys naked but I also do when I see girls naked. You can only be happy if you accept who you are!
2007-01-20 04:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by Dan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds horrible overused and corny but go with what your heart says. Don't be drawn to decisions of sexual drive but instead what your heart says. You can't technically heal your sexual cravings.
2007-01-20 04:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by Dante Alighieri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surrender your life to JESUS CHRIST.
Recognize your need for a Savior!Ask for forgiveness.Go to exodus ministry,they help people who are gays or bisexuals to get healing.Meanwhile,avoid any skin magazines and any movie or T.V.that shows skin.And keep your mind busy for other things.Don't be idle.
2007-01-20 04:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by ranya j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋