i like one of my brothers old friends(and my brother dont care)but yesterday i was texting him(his names bennett)and i was asking him if he likes me.. and he said i dont like you lets be friends er somn.. and i got really sad and started crying actually.. i though i wouldnt.. but i really REALLY like him alot.. and i dunno what to do.. i want to show him but im scared.. (right now im crying i want him soo bad but.. i dunno:( ) should i just start out being friends with him.. and then.. maybe?. haha.. i need advice! !
2007-01-20 04:08:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He wants to be FRIENDS, stop annoying the poor bloke otherwise he wont want to talk to you at all;
2007-01-20 04:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i feel like you should just be his friend don't put yourself into a relationship with someone who's not ready for you be patient and one day you will have him, friends first don't you be sad over no guy im guessing you are young take your time baby don't be scared about anything be strong and a good friend good things come to those who wait i think you are a nice young lady and if he don't like you and he use to be your brothers friend? don't stress yourself it must be something wrong with him, there's other guys out there i understand you like him and everything but he don't feel the same way about you at the time so you must be his friend first if you really Really like him get him to see things your way and don't get yourself disappointed once you get him if he's not what you expected just take it a day at a time being his friend that's my advice i wish you the best of luck and take care
2007-01-20 12:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by laverne j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only going to be playing yourself if you keep trying to pursue something with this guy. He has already told you that he doesn't like you...what more do you need. Don't cry over spilt milk. There are plenty fishes in the sea, and one made especially for you, so don't waste your time on someone that's not going to want you. You deserve to have better for yourself.
2007-01-20 12:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he just wants to be friends with you { that is a start } then just be friends, what is wrong with that.. Go find yourself some one who wants you there are a lot of good guys out there.
2007-01-20 12:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by Angell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends with this guy for now if it grows into a relationship then great if not there are other guys out there for you. Try hooking up with another guy maybe and see if you get a reaction out of him.
2007-01-20 12:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if you like him so much, you should learn to listen to what he just told you: "i dont like you lets be friends"
Stop pursuing him- have some respect and dignity. He does not like you. Give up. And stop crying.
2007-01-20 12:12:25 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, u should try be a friend with him....Try to hang out with him...
Slowly make an appropiate approach to him..
U dont know what will happen in future...Never say never that u will loose him..
2007-01-20 12:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has told u straight up that he jus wants to be friends then its better u move on or set ur mind right to be just friends with him, or u would only end up getting hurt.
2007-01-20 12:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by kelis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay cool. Be friends. Your feelings will change as you get to know him - for better or worse.
2007-01-20 12:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by gold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey for now jus be his friend, let him see how good you are and not jus your brother's little sis. he'll get to know the real 'his type' you.
2007-01-20 12:18:06 · answer #10 · answered by Carolyn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋